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starling wrote on Apr 14, 2009 2:40 AM:
misfit wrote on Apr 14, 2009 7:48 AM:
steph wrote on Apr 14, 2009 7:48 AM:
write1 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 8:15 AM:
napa1984 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 8:56 AM:
Kathy Concened wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:10 AM:
winemd wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:19 AM:
NVR-Dan Ross wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:22 AM:
The donation fund is in the names of two individuals, I did not make up that fact. It is necessary to explain who the second person is, for readers to understand the two names listed. The relevance of the daughter's name is that the donation fund used both mother and daughter's name. "
Localnapa wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:23 AM:
Nice parenting. This is all so sad, I just don't understand people sometimes. "
mafi wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:33 AM:
Kathy Concened wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:38 AM:
lavgirl wrote on Apr 14, 2009 10:26 AM:
pinkflame wrote on Apr 14, 2009 10:30 AM:
NVR-Dan Ross wrote on Apr 14, 2009 10:53 AM:
Although I understand your position, the daughter's name has been associated with this for years ... look at the article from 2007 where mom talks at length about the daughter and this issue ... her name was published long ago and also with all items publicizing the fundraisers that were held.
The daughter is not the focus of our interviews or follow-up articles for this incident. "
NVR-Dan Ross wrote on Apr 14, 2009 10:54 AM:
pb wrote on Apr 14, 2009 11:39 AM:
1964 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 11:43 AM:
I hope she has a lot of time behind bars to reflect on what she has done!! "
VERUM wrote on Apr 14, 2009 11:56 AM:
If anything, I doubt this community will punish this child, although parents may want to counsel their own children about being cruel; Sydney need not be ostracized. "
Calistoga_Tony wrote on Apr 14, 2009 12:02 PM:
SDmom wrote on Apr 14, 2009 12:59 PM:
watchdoggie wrote on Apr 14, 2009 1:00 PM:
PANCANSURVIVOR05 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 1:02 PM:
Not once did I or my mother look to the community for help with our diagnosis, treatment or support. My mother is 72 and still wroking. I am 45, widowed and work two (2) jobs to pay my mortgage and bills. I have my good days and bad, but I get through just like I got through the surgery and treatment. one minute, one hour , one day at a time. I can only say that this is really a sad day for real survivors! She has not only cheated her community and local law enforcement, but her daughter out of a normal life with her MOM! "
og2009 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 1:17 PM:
bmxdad wrote on Apr 14, 2009 1:25 PM:
It'll be interesting to see how this case will be adjudicated. "
frenchtoast wrote on Apr 14, 2009 1:45 PM:
why wrote on Apr 14, 2009 2:07 PM:
This gal needs some mental help. Doesn't the police dept check that she has doctor slips from her visits? Those were probably made up as well or taken off the doctors shelf when he looked the other way.
I can't even imagine what her little girl is feeling as well as her family members. This just makes me sick. "
PANCANSURVIVOR05 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 3:22 PM:
LifeLongNapan wrote on Apr 14, 2009 3:31 PM:
og2009 wrote on Apr 14, 2009 4:23 PM:
cavmpm wrote on Apr 14, 2009 4:27 PM:
mamyt wrote on Apr 14, 2009 4:32 PM:
Hmmm... wrote on Apr 14, 2009 5:48 PM:
mhnapavalley wrote on Apr 14, 2009 6:04 PM:
steph wrote on Apr 14, 2009 6:33 PM:
Mr. Feasor wrote on Apr 14, 2009 9:45 PM:
But now I have to question how she managed to pull this off. Did any city employee double-check her health care expenses? Wasn't that how was she able to get police and firefighter organizations to back her (allegedly) fraudulent fundraisers?
I mean - unless the doctor was a co-conspirator - a little oversight could have nipped this one in the bud. "
neesie1313 wrote on Apr 15, 2009 10:30 PM:
Grl 2sda wrote on Apr 16, 2009 2:04 AM:
I have read the comments left here and agree with most. I believe that the people who have suspected this for some time feel some type of gratification from finally seeing it come to the public’s eye. Many of those people were those that were closest to her and as you can imagine are hurt that she could look them in the eye and tell such tall tales about her heath condition. I have to both agree and disagree with neesie1313 – I agree that we must all rally around this little girl and continue to pray for strength for her and her family. The sins of the mother should definitely not fall on the daughter! "
Grl 2sda wrote on Apr 16, 2009 2:04 AM:
Most importantly, and surely on the minds of everyone who is linked to this story, wonders about the well being of her child. Especially after being told for years that her mother is going to die any day. Where was Ms. Vanderpool’s compassion for her own daughter?
Ms. Vanderpool has brought this on herself and now has to face whatever consequences are put forth. Do I believe she is an evil person -no. Do I believe she has “issues”-absolutely! One can only speculate on her motives…although, I am almost certain money was not one of them.
For those of you who feel duped by Ms. Vanderpool, I remind you that your intention at the time that you contributed is what counts!!! This community is comprised of outstanding and generous individuals who I believe will continue to meet the needs of its residents when it is asked of them.
My thoughts and prayers continue to go out to the family of the accused…I hope and pray that you have the strength to endure this long battle. "
napa1234 wrote on Apr 16, 2009 3:52 AM:
Of course it is not her daughter's fault. She is the biggest victim of all. Worrying that her mother could die for years, then finding out her mom was faking the cancer is going to leave some scars. My sister was close friends with her, and I have spent time with Dannille and her daughter. She has claimed she would never do anything to hurt her daughter, and I know she did not hurt her physically, but emotional is almost worse than physical in this case. If the truth had never come out, her daughter would have just been greatful her mother had gotten better, and I am sure that is what Dannille was counting on. But Dannille should have taken into account that her lies might be exposed and the harm that would cause her daughter. Dannille pushed it too far and obviously she has some mental issues to feel the need to fake cancer. I have attempted to put her motives in a comment before and it doesn't get posted, but I am sure after court tomorrow when more facts are released everyone will know what Dannille hoped to gain from her deception. But I do not believe money was her sole motivation. As a person close to this situation, and knowing her personally, I can say I feel sorry for her, but do not think she should go unpunished. She needs some help and maybe this will wake her up to that fact. In this economy, with all of us having money problems, what she did was hurt people who genuinely have cancer and need help. I hope people keep open hearts and continue to help others in need, but if even one person has second thoughts.... We all lost and there is no excuse. "
NapaPeeps wrote on Apr 16, 2009 6:42 AM:
neesie1313 wrote on Apr 16, 2009 8:07 AM:
Napa1234 - I didn't say that she wasn't guilty of what she's done. I think court today will say alot. I have every reason to be as angry as everyone else. I didn't just head down to the Pizza Shack, nor did I just send in a check. I spent a lot of time and effort making sure that she and her daughter had plenty to eat because she was too 'weak' to fix anything. I should be angry, I'm just finding that I'm not. Maybe it's shock.
NapaPeeps - I don't need to look up what a lynching is. I WAS at her house helping her paint. I saw all the people helping her. I was at her housewarming. I can totally understand all the anger people are feeling over this. I would just like to see her daughter not have to pay for her mother's sins. "
winemd wrote on Apr 16, 2009 10:36 AM:
neesie1313 wrote on Apr 16, 2009 8:50 PM:
AGAIN (before I am lamblasted in this forum)...I'm not saying that Dannille is not guilty. I'd like to believe that she isn't...the odds are against her definitely...but that doesn't mean we have to force our opinions on this issue on our children...give them the truth, let them decide...ask them what they think, rather than tell them what they should think... "
NapaPeeps wrote on Apr 17, 2009 2:53 PM: