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reason-ator wrote on Dec 2, 2008 1:00 PM:
So I figured I'd see if I could make this month's list disappear.
But I doubt it. Some people have a pet peeve. And they become so obsessed, they will make themselves look bad and have no clue. "
krusty wrote on Dec 2, 2008 4:56 PM:
old_napan52 wrote on Dec 3, 2008 8:13 AM:
juls wrote on Dec 3, 2008 8:48 AM:
wipemedown wrote on Dec 3, 2008 9:38 AM:
Lawman has put an end to my runnning and I'm so far from my home.
DUIs are not as bad as the NVR makes them with the monthly list of "Oh look at what so and so did, how horrible!" We all like to point out the faults of everyone else and think about how we are so much better than someone, when the truth of it is no one is any good at all.
SO lets point out some more people while were at it.
VP Cheney had two DUIs within a 8 month period
Mel Gibson had one DUI
Warren Moon Had one DUI
All Gore III had one
Matt Roloff had one
Mickey Rourke had one
Heather Locklear had one
Ray Liotta had one
Mike Tyson had one
To anyone on the list plead NOT GUILTY.
Lawyer up and keep your head up. "
selim wrote on Dec 4, 2008 1:48 PM:
Mike Tyson & Cheney, yeah, real paragons of humanity. Next you'll try to tell us that DUIs are ok because Jorg Haider loved to sauce n' spin. Dummkopf uber alles.
Over 12,000 people died last year in alcohol-related traffic accidents. That's over 4 times the number of people who died in the 9/11 attacks...EVERY YEAR. And you think people are making it out to be a "big deal"?
If the prospect of public humiliation is enough to get at least one potential DUI off the road, then I say go for it. "
tiredofcomplainingnapkins wrote on Dec 4, 2008 3:35 PM:
napagirl1970 wrote on Dec 4, 2008 9:56 PM:
Awesome point...I love it...Every month when this list comes out, and I read a name of someone I know, I think twice about getting snockered up when I know I have to drive to pick someone up, etc…, but it does make you think twice, choosing a DD, or taking a taxi is less embarrising for sure!!! Although. I have to somewhat agree with the tourist not getting on the list, I guess it brings in too much rev’s from the wineries for the city to stay off of 29/silverado for the time being, I would guess they could double their revenue if they did this, set up the next dui checkpoint on a Friday/Saturday/Sunday and wow, we could be out of debt??? When I think I need to have a drink I get that DD or arrange for something else….just a thought??? "
juls wrote on Dec 5, 2008 8:07 AM:
snowmom2 wrote on Dec 6, 2008 7:12 AM:
If you drink, please call a friend, walk, or just don't drive. "
napawineo wrote on Dec 6, 2008 2:47 PM:
You got some explaining to do.....Dan-O "
NVR-Dan Ross wrote on Dec 6, 2008 3:41 PM:
Due to the large volume of DUI arrests and convictions, we publish the convictions on a monthly basis.
Felony arrests for other crimes are reported on as we receive them, and we write them up as articles when they happen, rather than waiting to only write them up once a month. "
napawineo wrote on Dec 6, 2008 5:58 PM:
This needs a follow up...not your standard spin that you from time to time list felony convictions as METH rules this town...just ask any COP. "
Old Time Napkin wrote on Dec 7, 2008 7:28 AM:
reason-ator wrote on Dec 7, 2008 11:57 AM:
Where it strays from legitimacy is the tabloidish push to publish it every day. drunk drivers get their names published every day, while the mere child-molesters, murderers, etc. are daily publishing.
It must be nice to have pet-peeves, personal agendas, and a newspaper to use as a tool to reach the masses.
Meanwhile, all the people who are horrified to hear of those doing what they are too perfect to do are out jeopardizing everyone on their trendy smart phones behind the wheel of a speeding projectile guided by a phone-impaired driver. But we can't talk about that, because we don't want to admit we are as much a danger to the motoring public as a drunk driver. After all, phone-driving is something WE do. We're better than those other equally dangerous motorists. "
YOUNGNAP wrote on Dec 9, 2008 11:15 AM:
reason-ator wrote on Dec 9, 2008 12:55 PM:
I guess we don't want to discourage unplanned meth use or child moelesting. Just drunk driving. You know, drunk driving, where a light goes on and says " you're over the legal limit ", so it's really obvious that you're breaking the law. Not one of those vague notions where you're not sure whether meth is illegal or where you don't know for sure if the 7-year-old boy is of legal age of consent.
That's why we don't publish the names of the child molesters. The standards are vague. Not so with DUI. EVERYONE knows whether they're 0.07 or 0.08. "
mALO wrote on Dec 9, 2008 1:40 PM:
gatekeeper wrote on Dec 11, 2008 3:26 PM:
You forgot Ted Kennedy. "
NapaConservative wrote on Dec 12, 2008 11:14 PM:
toobuff wrote on Dec 14, 2008 9:44 PM:
seriously wrote on Dec 28, 2008 10:36 AM:
reason-ator wrote on Dec 29, 2008 1:24 AM:
We may never get any follow-up stories about traffic accident stories that are woefully lacking in details, but you'll get to see the NapaVal Enquirer DUI list over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over.
February is the month you need to be anxious about missing it. "
Civil Rights Advocate wrote on Dec 30, 2008 1:18 PM:
civil rights advocate wrote on Dec 30, 2008 4:55 PM:
reason-ator wrote on Dec 30, 2008 6:39 PM:
The Register feels they are doing the right thing by ruining innocent people's lives.
Your logic will be falling on deaf ears. Especially since it appears that everyone there is on vacation.
I appreciate the effort, but DUIs are one of those things that causes zealots to become irrational and vindictive. While I understand the emotion ( I've had friends killed by drunk drivers ), I don't understand the blindness that some people seem to have with regards to this damaging and useless feature. "
jmo wrote on Dec 30, 2008 9:05 PM:
One is clean and sober the other is not. Each ones true friends know who is who. "
reason-ator wrote on Dec 30, 2008 9:50 PM:
See ? What'd I tell ya ?
Running down to the courthouse and perusing public records for hours is the same as sitting in the comfort of your own home and reading the NapaVal Enquirer every day in some people's (closed) minds...... "
Is it 2012 yet? wrote on Dec 31, 2008 7:40 AM:
I second jmo.
Embarrassment is a powerful tool and an eye opener for many who might think they're invisible and invincible.
Drunks "civil rights"? LOL, who are you? An ACLU clown? "
civil rights advocate wrote on Dec 31, 2008 11:25 AM:
I concur, it goes beyond (closed) minds, and particularly disturbing due to the lack of education, understanding, knowledge and awareness of psychological emotional abuse. It is NEVER OK to shame, emotionally abuse anyone and I mean anyone! JMO you really don't get it do you? Some people internalize shame so deeply they may never be able to "get over it" A very dear friend of mine has never gotten over the fact that another newspaper printed "matters of public record," in which her son was never able to get over and committed suicide, that's reality, 20 years later, she is still unable to "get over it" and holds the paper responsible for her son's death.
Shame is a form of emotional abuse, like it or not, it is, and powerful, you bet, so powerful people commit suicide over it! What is the threshold folks, one death, 5 deaths. Yes, people are also killed by drunk drivers and never ok, a tragedy, but tell me how a death at the hands of another sort of vehicle "shame," is any different? Both negligence resulting in death, ironically, the very thing everyone is trying to prevent! Now do you get it?
Capitalizing on people's handicaps and disabilities is another sort of addiction called greed, ruining the careers of people to sell another newsaper? unmeasureable and potentially so damaging it's a wonder no one has filed an SOC 341 to report emotional and financial abuse. There are some people on the list who may have DSM-IV diagnoses so disabling unable to get over it, ask any mental health expert to increase awareness/knowledge about human behaviors of which you personally have not had experiece with. Do the research before spouting off please! "
civil rights advocate wrote on Dec 31, 2008 12:08 PM:
reason-ator wrote on Dec 31, 2008 12:56 PM:
The NVR has been degrading themselves with this small-town high-school newspaper-type gossip for a long time, and it has not curtailed DUI's at all. Meanwhile, kids are growing up without a parent becaue of it.
I supposed the kids are at fault, and should suffer because of it, huh ?
I was at a party recently, and people were laughing at this newspaper. The laughter started with this daily gossip column. And before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, everyone already had their sober drivers lined up.
Nobody their seemed to take the NVR seriously. But then, some people won't bother reading it anymore. Partly, I think, because of features such as this. "
jmo wrote on Dec 31, 2008 12:59 PM:
There may be some people in the list with a hang nail to acne and not able to get over it. It is neither our problem nor fault. It is their issue to deal with and resolve... "
reason-ator wrote on Dec 31, 2008 2:26 PM:
I give you Exhibit jmo.
There are more.
Once again, I gotta say that anyone who drinks too much and drives is deplorable. But many do it with the belief that they are not legally drunk.
And then there are cell phone users. All are as impaired as drunks, and there is NO DOUBT that THEY are breaking the law. And the text'ers have reaction times triple what a drunk driver does.
And yet, there are holier-than-thou hypocrites who talk on a cell phone and text while driving and come here trashing a driver that may not have knowingly been drunk when they drove. Sure, they are right, but they are just as bad, if not worse. But they act more snobbish, because they haven't killed anybody. Yet. "
jmo wrote on Dec 31, 2008 3:54 PM:
I also deplore those folks who think that their cell phone calls, without hands free device, or texting are so almighty important to the detriment of the driving law abiding public.
Still we must all take responsibility for our actions which c-r-a's friend does not seem to think that her son is exempt from blaming the newspaper.
HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL!!!
Here's to many fewer names on this years list. "
reason-ator wrote on Dec 31, 2008 5:35 PM:
But I won't be driving.
Happy New Year to EVERYBODY. "
civil rights advocate wrote on Dec 31, 2008 7:43 PM:
Napa_Citizen wrote on Jan 1, 2009 11:23 AM:
reason-ator wrote on Jan 1, 2009 12:51 PM:
Posting this list has affected the lives of many innocent people. By your logic, the people who publish this list should therefore be publically shamed every day, correct ?
Yet somehow, this is probably different, because it doesn't titillate the voyeurs who love the gossip, I'll bet. They should be so proud.
You know what's amazing is that 99% of the people will read the name of someone they know on this list, but not have the guts to talk to the person face-to-face. But they WILL talk about the person on the list behind their back without knowing if it was really the person they thought it was. "
Is it 2012 yet? wrote on Jan 1, 2009 4:09 PM:
It is rather pathetic that in a civilized society, the victim has become the "abuser".
Explain that to Ms. Clark who lost both legs to a drunk driver, explain that to her husband, kids, family and friends.
Innocent people are the ones going about their life when an idiot made the choice to go out there and taking that life, or worse, destroy it. And you are whining because a bunch of names are printed monthly that may or not coincide with "someone's"?
Shame on you!
It is not about gossip, but if you want to talk about cowards talking about people behind their backs, that's another story. "
reason-ator wrote on Jan 1, 2009 7:16 PM:
So this shame list is working ?
Again, tell me of one instance where a drunk was deterred by this DUI list from getting behind the wheel of a car.
It is absolutely amazing to me that logical people think that a drunk person could ignore the thousands of dollars in fines, the loss of a license, and the possible harm they could do to themselves and/or others when they get behind the wheel of a car or truck, and THEN decide ( in an alcohol-induced haze ) 'Oh, wait, I might get my name in the paper in a few months I better not drive and lose thousands of dollars and possibly hurt someone', as if they're thinking that far in the future.
Someone would have to be pretty vain and illogical to be more concerned about getting their name in the paper than killing someone or losing thousands of dollars. Maybe those are the kind of people who think this list does any good.
It sure does much more harm than good. "
Napa_Citizen wrote on Jan 2, 2009 12:17 PM:
2. Posting the drunk drivers names allows me to know if my child/children could possibly be driving with someone who could put them at risk. (parents of friends at school? Even the people we know have secrets. )
3. Harms them how? Embarassment? I think they'll make it through...
4. Don't want your name posted? Don't drink and drive. Its the consquence of your/their own actions.
5. I saw a friend name of mine on here this year. I talked to her about it face to face. She made a mistake, and thought she was ok to drive. (like so many do)
6. Happy New Year! ! ! "
reason-ator wrote on Jan 2, 2009 3:18 PM:
2. Yeah, possibly. Hope nobody named John Smith or Jose Garcia is driving your kids.
3. People have killed themselves because of the shame of the list ( which DIDN'T prevent the DUI, of course ) and their innocent families have to go on without their father/mother and husband/wife because the NVR has to do nothing that prevents drunk driving. Also, people have lost jobs because someone with the same name got a DUI.
5. That's the problem with DUI. People don't know for sure if they're breaking the law, but the cell phone users know for sure. They are just as impaired, and there are many more of them, but the NVR doesn't try and stop them with shame.
6. Agreed. Happy New Year. And nobody should drink and drive.
Meanwhile, this list won't stop anybody who is drunk from deciding to drive.
I'll admit, it raises public awareness. Don't tell anyone I admittted that. But if somebody is stupid enough to drink and drive, they're not going to be smart enough to think about the major consequences. Let alone a minor one such as the NapaVal Enquirer's attempted shame list.
I think if I was a kid and my father killed himself because of this list, I'd cancel my subscription. At least. Who knows, I could end up buying oven cleaner in bulk, if I was a kid who lost a parent. The kids could end up being drunk drivers themselves because of the lack of guidance.
What a desirable outcome.
It does more harm than good. What makes that hard to comprehend ? "
Napa_Citizen wrote on Jan 3, 2009 8:43 AM:
What ideas do you have to motivate someone not to drive under the influence???
Well I guess we agree to disagree on the printing of names - but we do agree on the key thing:
"Don't do anything in your vehicle that impairs your judgement to drive safely" "
NAPADAD wrote on Jan 3, 2009 1:55 PM:
reason-ator wrote on Jan 3, 2009 6:03 PM:
Ideally, just the DUI offense itself should have been adequate. But the widow and orphans were innocent, and I got the impression that if the good old NVR had not had this list, those innocent people would not be widows or orphans.
Of course, it's possible that the shame list may have prevented deaths of other innocent people. It's impossible to prove, and I doubt it, since I doubt whether this list is a deterrent to drunk driving at all from reasons I've stated ad nauseum.
Remember, the people who choose to drive while drunk are impaired. If they're too impaired to think about killing themselves or someone else, I'm sure they're too impaired to consider some obscure list such as this.
Now, let's lobby for a shame list for cell-phone usage if we;re so concerned. I just heard a CHP officer claim that cell-phone usage is the #1 reason for accidents now. ANd someone who chooses to use a cell phone is supposedly not drunk and able to make a well-thought out decision to break the law.
But there's no shame list for that. I guess we'll just have to wait for a NVR employee to suffer a loss because of a cell-phone user so the NVR will have another pet peeve and axe to grind.
Again, this list does more harm than good. And I've used too many words, which some people said 200 words ago......... "
napagirl1970 wrote on Jan 3, 2009 6:21 PM:
reason-ator wrote on Jan 3, 2009 6:39 PM:
I'm sure if the people on 'Napa's Most Wanted' knew that they were going to get their name in the paper EVERY DAY for a WHOLE month, they'd stop batering their domestics and possessing their controlled substances. They'd think about getting their name in the paper before they battered or possessed.
And pigs wouldn't fly if they thought they'd get outted in the paper, also. Oh, WAIT. Maybe THAT's why pigs don't fly as much as they used to...... "
jpcrash wrote on Jan 4, 2009 3:47 PM:
reason-ator wrote on Jan 4, 2009 3:58 PM:
They'll also have a snippet about mind-reading. There are probably some readers here who already know all about that part, too.
Sorry, the NVR censors have taken away some of my pleasantness. I apologize.
It would be nice if the NVR told us why they censor what we say, since it doesn't make journalism seem very impartial unless we know what their motives are. "
jmo wrote on Jan 5, 2009 10:24 PM:
reason-ator wrote on Jan 6, 2009 10:30 AM:
I did. Sorta. Someone else started it, though. "
NVR-Dan Ross wrote on Jan 6, 2009 10:46 AM:
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--Dan "