What are you thankful for
By ANGELINA GERVASIO
Thanksgiving is around the corner ... what are you thankful for?
I am thankful that I live in a great country, where we can believe in what we want and not get killed for it. I am thankful for the brave men and women that are out protecting us from the terrorists that would be more than happy to kill us all or take our freedoms away.
I am thankful I am getting an education, even though sometimes I found myself bored at school and I would rather not be there. And above all, I am thankful that I have a family that loves me and cares for me. Sometimes it may not seem like it when I am punished, but the teachings of right and wrong are vital to living a good life.
I for one, am thankful for the fact I have a roof over my head and food in the fridge, for a mom and dad who love me and a sister who annoys me. I am thankful for my family!
I am thankful my mom stays home with me and my sister and my dad is working, and not out spending money on drugs while my mom works three jobs to keep us alive (or the other way around).
It seems as if the more technology we get, the faster cars, the "smarter" computers, we lose touch with the things that really matter, like parents actually raising their kids. We see kids in daycare centers labeled "preschools" who go on expensive vacations to Hawaii and Disney World all the time but never get to spend time with their parents and are being raised by someone who doesn't know them or love them like a mom and dad would. "Children will not remember you for the material things you provided but for the feeling that you cherished them."
It is sad to think that the parents believe their "baby" would be happier going on vacations in cool places and having fancy stuff than having the love of their parents. I had a friend who spent most of her young life in day care and then at her grandparents' house when her grandma retired because her parents chose to spend all their time working achieving their careers and to be able to afford the cool stuff, and she was miserable, I mean, who wouldn't be?
Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
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freeport56 wrote on Nov 18, 2008 5:23 PM:
gatekeeper wrote on Nov 18, 2008 5:51 PM:
Happy Thanksgiving!!! "
winemd wrote on Nov 18, 2008 7:16 PM:
pharper wrote on Nov 18, 2008 8:54 PM:
steph wrote on Nov 19, 2008 9:13 AM:
I'm thankful Angelina asked this question, because it's a good thing to reflect and give thanks. "
Newview wrote on Nov 19, 2008 10:09 AM:
Napagrrl wrote on Nov 19, 2008 11:50 AM:
It's "sad" to me that you believe that parents who choose to work and then have enough money to take family vacations somehow do not have "the love of their parents..."
But, to answer the question, I am thankful for my family; I am thankful that I am able to CHOOSE to stay home with my kids; I am thankful for the new administration! "
steph wrote on Nov 19, 2008 1:39 PM:
Angelina Gervasio wrote on Nov 19, 2008 5:20 PM:
Napagrrl-
Maybe you misunderstood me.... I meant that the parents CHOSE to work all day and CHOSE to leavet their kid in a daycare center all day so they could work to make the money to afford to go on expensive vacations to Hawaii and skiing in Colorado 2 or 3 times a year rather than just going to Tahoe or Berryessa for a few days and actually spending time with and raising their kids by not working as much. "
pharper wrote on Nov 19, 2008 6:02 PM:
I think it really just depends on the situation. I know plenty of kids who spent a lot of time in daycare, but it wasn't because the parents didn't care. In some families, both parents work. I don't think that's good or bad. Again, it's something that's individual to the family.
And I'm thankful that this school project will be over tomorrow! "
sammy wrote on Nov 20, 2008 8:59 AM:
Jenn wrote on Nov 20, 2008 3:58 PM:
PlasticPinkFlamingo wrote on Nov 22, 2008 11:04 AM:
Seriously, I am thankful for all these things, family, new and old friends, our animal friends, and the ability to have a day to celebrate and give thanks. "
funnyme wrote on Nov 23, 2008 6:50 AM:
I am thankful for my hard working husband for keeping our family well fed, dressed, entertained and with a roof over our heads, and all these with a smile on his face...most of the time!
I am thankful for my daughters for keeping themselves out of trouble, for their love to learn, creativity, compassion and for making me laugh and keeping me young.
I am thankful for my dog who gets me out of the house every morning to go running.
I am thankful for my parents love and wisdom; for my in-laws who are always there when we need them.
I am thankful for my job that allows me to work as much as needed without having to ever place my kids in a daycare; my bosses and coworkers who make my job fun!
I am thankful for my kids' teachers, my friends and neighbors who never fail to show their friendship and good spirit and for sending me those chain emails that make us all laugh!
I am thankful for the freedoms we have in this beautiful country; for the men and women who put their lives on the line so we can go to sleep every night knowing we are safe under their watch so I can pray to God and thank him for being alive and healthy! "
sammy wrote on Nov 23, 2008 12:58 PM:
kevin wrote on Nov 27, 2008 12:59 PM: