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beth wrote on Oct 27, 2008 4:31 PM:
To her family -- I'm thinking of you and so very sorry. "
upvalley wrote on Oct 27, 2008 5:01 PM:
...and death is only an horizon, and an horizon is nothing, save the limits of our sight."
So very sorry to hear of Veronica's death. She was a friend of my son. I pray that you find some peace. "
drummer22 wrote on Oct 27, 2008 6:38 PM:
4thgennapa wrote on Oct 27, 2008 6:56 PM:
newindie wrote on Oct 27, 2008 7:25 PM:
mormonfrye16 wrote on Oct 27, 2008 7:49 PM:
sissorzzzzzzzzz wrote on Oct 27, 2008 8:38 PM:
genmarie wrote on Oct 27, 2008 9:51 PM:
diegosahagun wrote on Oct 27, 2008 9:52 PM:
dfagundes wrote on Oct 27, 2008 9:55 PM:
SmacK wrote on Oct 27, 2008 10:36 PM:
lilangel4ever756 wrote on Oct 27, 2008 10:47 PM:
veronica is my best friend and i cant even begin to accept the fact that she is gone. after coming home today... all i wanted to do was to have her here with me... i couldnt even have that.
i swear that i hear her voice like everywhere now... i cant stop thinking about her.
she was a great friend. i considered her a sister. we had our ups and downs but we have sooo many memories. she was there for me through alot and i could never thank her enough. i never got the chance to thank her for everything. thank you so much, i love you.
we have so many good memories. from random moments, to late nights, our sleepovers, and pointless conversations. i could go to her for anything and she was right there for me. i will never forget you.
your life was too short and i'll never understand why this had to happen to you. its not fair. at least we had a fun weekend. i will never forget how much fun we had. i will miss it all so much.
i will never forget our trips, especially our hawaii adventures. Lanie and Elle forever!oh my god, i cant believe this is happening. i cant believe you are gone.
babe, i love youu.
im so sorrry for everything. i will miss you greatly gorgeous! watch over all of us down here and say hi to my mom..
at least i know you are in a better place.
dont worry, we will see each other again soon.
i love you beautiful.
Love always and Forever, Britt "
nvgirlie wrote on Oct 28, 2008 6:52 AM:
I'm so very sorry for your loss. What a tragedy. Words cannot express the pain you must feel...there is no greater loss than that of a child. I do not know you, but I truly hope that in time, the pain lessens, and beautiful memories remain.
God Bless You, Kim (Vacaville) "
gardenlady wrote on Oct 28, 2008 7:42 AM:
w2erchck09 wrote on Oct 28, 2008 8:50 AM:
I will never forget the memories that I had with her and although we haven't been as close as we were the past couple years I will still always remember the fun that we had hanging out, G.S. and the trip I took with her and her family to Montana/Wyoming..
It really takes losing a person to realize how much they mean to you so never take that for granted..
Veronica will always be in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that her family stays strong at this time of sorrow and always.
She will be missed by many.. and when you think of her remember all the good memories you had.
...R.I.P. Veronica.... We love you "
hayden wrote on Oct 28, 2008 9:30 AM:
GrapetownBankerBoi707 wrote on Oct 28, 2008 11:27 AM:
i remember giving her rides with my sister to sports and all around town. one experience that i remember very clearly is of a day when i gave her a ride home after picking up my sister and realizing that she didn't have a ride. on the way, i called my friend and was speaking to him in spanish.....not realizing at the time that the little whitegurl with blonde hair in the backseat spoke spanish fluently. it really threw me when i said something and she told me she understood what i had said. she and my sister got a good laugh at my shocked face. somehow in all the years that i had known her, i never knew she spoke spanish.
I just saw Veronica last wednesday at Lucky while getting supplies for my girlfriend's birthday party that night. as usual, she was looking out for my sister. i planned on talking to her yesterday to follow up on what we talked about but while out of town on sunday i heard the news. I wish i had known it was the last time i'd see her.
Thank you for everything, Veronica. You are a great friend to me and my sister!
RIP VERONICA! YOU WILL BE MISSED! DESCANSE EN PAZ PARA SIEMPRE! "
JS-parent wrote on Oct 28, 2008 12:12 PM:
kvmap wrote on Oct 28, 2008 12:29 PM:
Words Fail
Words fail, empty, limp and dry
When Earth fractures from the Sky
Like leaves under Autumn trees
Words fail at times like these
Our souls filled now with acrid pain
With loss so deep it has no name
Impossible now, but truth sublime
That bitter cold will ebb with time
Then the warming light of Spring
So distant now in Winter's ring
Will once again bring growth and light
When Earth and Sky will re-unite "
biena22 wrote on Oct 28, 2008 1:36 PM:
you will be missed, you were a wonderful, and funny person, I will miss seeing you for one of your crazy starbucks drinks. "
valenciafam wrote on Oct 28, 2008 1:39 PM:
Elva, Laura, Israel and Moises send our prayers and support. "
john zimmermann wrote on Oct 28, 2008 4:09 PM:
A good measure of a person's true worth is the company that he or she keeps. For our daughter's passing to engender such an outpouring of positive emotion is truly overwhelming.
To all of you who have called, and written, and to all of you who have helped us so much in this tragic time, we thank you.
May God look down on you with the same generosity that he did for us when he let us have our sweet daughter for these past 17 years.
To all of Veronica's friends: please write us with anecdotes or memories of Veronica. It is the only thing that we will have to hold onto.
We love you all, John, Bianca, and Jean Paul Zimmermann "
mhudler wrote on Oct 28, 2008 4:20 PM:
JaxonandDawnching wrote on Oct 28, 2008 5:50 PM:
PiecesArt wrote on Oct 28, 2008 6:28 PM:
There are no words I have that can ease the pain I know you must be feeling right now. My heart goes out to you during this difficult and painful time. May your beautiful daughter and sister rest in peace and may sweet memories of her fill your hearts and time heal the feeling of loss.
Blessings to you all.
Diana Meehan "
CoachWill wrote on Oct 28, 2008 8:37 PM:
Stacey and I have been sitting here for an hour trying to figure out what to say...and how to say it. All we know is that Veronica was a very lucky young lady to have such wonderful parents like you. This is truly a tragedy. You are in our hearts, and in our prayers.
With Love,
William, Stacey, Tayler, Kyle, Courtney Petersen. "
Idalady wrote on Oct 28, 2008 8:49 PM:
Sometimes were given special gifts for a short while, we cherish them and love them and then they leave us, but they have imprinted our hearts forever and our soles for a lifetime. You have been such a big part of my Daughter' Lynn's life for so many years that your families tradgedy is ours. Please know that we are thinking of all of you and asking for you to receive strength at this time and whenever you feel like giving up, you will be lifted up instead. Just knowing what a wonderul person Veronica was and how many lives she touched must help heal your broken hearts. Take Care and Love Sue Filutze "
maryjobarnett wrote on Oct 28, 2008 9:21 PM:
Mary Jo, Bruce and Kate "
Andre's wrote on Oct 28, 2008 10:41 PM:
WeberWorld wrote on Oct 28, 2008 10:55 PM:
We love you, Bianca, John and Jean Paul!
Mary, Ron, Rebecca, Reid and Megan "
ANNALICIA wrote on Oct 28, 2008 11:20 PM:
i HAVE GONE THROUGH MANy DEATHS AND iTS HARD TO SEE ANOTHER FRiEND GO! i WAS JUST MESSING AROUND WITH HER IN CLASS. WE HAD DANCE TOGETHER AND WE WERE iN THE SAME LOCKER ROOM AND i WOULD COME iN THE CLASS SHORTLy AFTER SHE WOULD AND I WOULD PLAy PEEK A BOO WiTH HER! SHE WOULD BE CHANGiNG iNTO HER DANCE CLOTHES AND i WOULD OPEN AND CLOTHES THE DOOR AND SHE WOULD FALL TO THE GROUND LAUGHN AND SAyiNG "ANNALiCiA STOP iT iM TRyiNG TO CHANGE" AND SHE WOULD BUST UP LAUGHiNG. iT WAS SO HARD FOR ME TO OPEN THAT DOOR TODAy iN CLASS... i MiSS HER SO MUCH. KAyLA AND i DECORATED HER DANCE LOCKER TODAy iN THE REMEMBERANCE OF HER! i AM SO TRUELy SORRy THAT THiS HAD TO HAPPEN. THANKS FOR HAViNG SUCH A GREAT DAUGHTER i MiSS HER DEARLy! i REMEMBER NOT TO LONG AGO SHE CRiED iN My ARMS iN DACNE TALKiNG ABOUT HOW SHE DiDNT THiNK PEOPLE LiKED HER AND i REMEBER HOLDiNG HER AND TELLiNG HER HOW MUCH WE LOVED HER EXPECiALLy ME! iM SO GLAD i GOT TO TELL HER THAT AND i AM GLAD SHE iS LOOKiNG DOWN ON ME. iF THERE iS ANyTHiNG i CAN PLEASE SEND ME AN EMAIL. ANNALICIA04@AOL.COM. iT WOULD BE GREATLy APPRECiATED i AM TRULy SORRy! STAY STRONG
REST iN PEACE VERONiCA i LOVE AND MiSS yU BABE. STAy LOOKiNG DOWN ON ME i LOVE yU "
TeriLyn1980 wrote on Oct 28, 2008 11:28 PM:
This world, however beautiful,
was never meant to be the place that we would call our home for all eternity.
Although we would not choose to leave, A loving God knows best.
And in His time, He lifts us to a place of peace and rest. For He has built a mansion where His children will abide,
Free from pain and sorrow, forever at His side. He said He’d never leave us to face our trials alone, And though sometimes we fail Him, He never fails His own. And even when our choices are less than He would ask, He knows when human courage is unequal to the task. We cannot judge what happens,
Though tears and questions start –
We only see what’s visible – God sees into the heart….
And though there may be many things
That we cannot explain, We can be sure it breaks His heart
To see His children’s pain. In loving arms, He bears us to a quiet place apart
Where He mends the wounded spirit
And heals the broken heart. And though these ones we love so much
Have left our present sight And passed into a better world of majesty and light,
Someday we’ll be together in our Father’s home above, Where we’ll thank Him for His mercy. And praise Him for His love.
May God ease our hour of sorrow
And surround you with His love,
And may it bring you strength to know
Our Father’s house above Is a house of many mansions
Where His Son has set aside
Special places near Him
For His loved ones to abide.
thoughts & prayers, Teri & Paige Mitchell "
vinovalleygirl wrote on Oct 29, 2008 9:31 AM:
parentalus wrote on Oct 29, 2008 10:29 AM:
Hey there, it's Natalie..Words can not discribe how distraught we all are over Veronicas passing !! I can not thank you enough for letting Her stay with us that summer !! That time is so precious to our family..I can't even tell you how much we loved having her !! She was the most precious girl I have ever met !! Kind , polite, helpfull..she was just as beautiful on the inside , as she was on the outside..maybe even more so !! We are so sorry for the loss...can't even imagine how aweful this must be for your family !! Sarah and Hannah haven't stopped crying..they loved her so much. We pray that the healing of your hearts will come sooner than later..and we too do believe you will be feeling the beautiful spirit of your daughter around you , Love the Eichlers Jr
P.S. I have tried to call a couple of times..but listening to the message on the answering machine choked me up so bad..i couldn't leave a message. John Paul and Veronica sound so cute with the rapping and giggling..it was wonderful hearing her voice though..We Love you guys,,,take care !! "
SEG wrote on Oct 29, 2008 12:43 PM:
I have had you all on my mind since John called on Monday night. I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. I am a part of a group of friends from Wisconsin who have known Bianca since grade school. The last time I saw Veronica was 8 years ago. Bianca has always keep us informed about the events in Veronica's life as well as jean Paul's. So even though I was not directly involved in her life, I felt like I knew her until I read all the comments posted here. Her friends comments made me cry, but showed how much impact her life had on theirs. What an extraordinary young woman! She touched so many. I know there are no words to console you at this time, but know that we love you and grieve for you. I am sorry I cannot attend the funeral but Sharon will be there to represent us. I know that there are dear friends and family there to support you, I know how helpful that is. Until I can talk to you personally, please know that you are forever in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Susie "
sydney wrote on Oct 29, 2008 12:54 PM:
I'm so very sorry about the loss of your daughter. Sydney (Shaul) Proctor "
ryan360guy wrote on Oct 29, 2008 1:26 PM:
roasted wrote on Oct 29, 2008 4:04 PM:
Chakrachic wrote on Oct 29, 2008 5:11 PM:
Much love to you.
DM "
smacksmom wrote on Oct 29, 2008 5:59 PM:
Sometimes, God in his infinite wisdom gives us all "a wake up call" and it's not always in a a way that makes sense. Someday He will reveal to each of us why he needed Veronica now instead of later.
Veronica honey... thank you for all you have taught my family. You will forever be in our memories and in our hearts. You will live on in all the lives you have touched. Although you were naturally blessed with the gift of giving and caring, you were also blessed in having been taught this gift through example by your loving parents.
Please watch over your Mom, Dad and Jean Paul, they love you so, and will miss you immensely Darling. Rest in peace Angel. "
vef08 wrote on Oct 29, 2008 9:07 PM:
roasted wrote on Oct 30, 2008 8:06 AM:
Paul Carey wrote on Oct 30, 2008 9:13 AM:
Light, air, color, vibrancy, laughter, joy, love and compassion - from the core of her being, Veronica radiated all of these things, and more. Veronica in turn was a reflection of the whole Zimmerman family and the love they share.
Veronica, we will cherish and hold you dear forever. May you rest in peace.
Sincerely, and with love and condolences to John, Bianca and Jean Paul,
The Carey Family. "
JaxonandDawnching wrote on Oct 30, 2008 11:01 AM:
john zimmermann wrote on Oct 30, 2008 10:09 PM:
Veronica's beacon of light penetrated further than we would have imagined.
She was with her good friends when she died, likely smiling and laughing, as was her habit. How wonderful it would be that we could all choose that way to pass...immediate, and painless, without suffering, in the company of those that we love.
We must allow only good to come from this. No blame must be placed...it was an unfortunate accident. We must reach out to those other beautiful young people that were involved in the accident, and embace them, and help them to heal as well. Veronica would have wanted that.
Please learn from Veronica's legacy: the important thing in life is our relationship with others. We must give, not just receive. reach out, as Veronica did, to all of those around you, and let them know that you care for them, and will be there in their time of need. She had a knack for sowing the seeds of happiness wherever she ventured...let us pray that she can help us do the same.
i would love to contact each and every one of you personally, and thank you...I can be reached at jpzmd@ascnv.com
Thank you, John Zimmermann "
smacks bro wrote on Oct 30, 2008 10:29 PM:
St. Stephen Friends wrote on Oct 31, 2008 6:30 PM:
There are no words to convey our sorrow and sympathy for the heart-breaking loss you have experienced. Veronica was a joy to know!Our children remember many of the nice (and funny) things she said or did while they were together. How blessed you must feel knowing the difference she made in so many lives, including your own. I keep thinking that she had wonderful role models after whom she patterned her own life and her relationships with others. You made her into the wonderful young woman she was! She was fortunate to have you as much as you were blessed to have her. We know she is with God and awaits her reunion with you on the last day! Godspeed Veronica! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! Love, Barb, Andy and Family "
jwk wrote on Nov 1, 2008 4:32 AM: