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Driver sought in hit-and-run death of toddler
Monday, June 02, 2008
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Napa Police officers continue to look for the driver of a car suspected of Saturday’s fatal hit-and-run that cost the life of 2 1/2 year-old Mattea Reynolds, police said Sunday.

The child, who was found unconscious along a curb on Old Sonoma Road near Juvenile Hall, died from her injuries at Queen of the Valley Medical Center Saturday morning.
A witness, a driver, who was westbound on Old Sonoma Road and saw Mattea walk alone at 5:15 a.m., has been found, Cmdr. Andy Lewis said Sunday.

The witness, whose name was not released, saw a car driving eastbound on Old Sonoma Road — a 1980s four-door American-made sedan with chrome side trim, Lewis said.
“It’s a car of interest,” he said.

The search continues for other witnesses as well, Lewis said, including a pedestrian who alerted a Juvenile Hall employee on her way to work after seeing Mattea walking alone on Old Sonoma Road near Juvenile Hall.
Police said the Hispanic woman wore a navy blue or black windbreaker, and dark pants, and carried a lunch box or bag.

Lewis could not say why the witnesses did not prevent Mattea from walking on the road.

“That’s a good question,” he said.

Betty Reynolds, the victim’s grandmother, lived with Mattea and other relatives in an apartment near Juvenile Hall. Reynolds reported the child missing at approximately 5:30 a.m., according to police.

Police officers were responding to the call just as the Juvenile Hall worker headed to work.

The Juvenile Hall employee found the girl lying unconscious near a south curb of Old Sonoma Road, directly across the street from Juvenile Hall, and carried her across the street. The employee and emergency workers attempted first aid; the child was then transported by Piner ambulance to the hospital.

Lewis declined to say where the child’s mother was early Saturday morning. He also declined to say if the apartment’s front door was locked.

The big question is why the child left home alone early Saturday morning, Lewis said.

“We’re looking at the dynamics of that particular household,” he said.

On Sunday, Reynolds’ husband, Ron Fryer, said Mattea was a very bright child who could have opened the front door.

“We locked the door,” he said, referring to the apartment’s front door.

The child’s mother, Jolene Reynolds, was not home when Fryer and his wife realized that Mattea was missing, Fryer added.

Betty Reynolds said on Saturday evening she called police after she got up to go to the bathroom, saw the lights on, and could not find Mattea home. Fryer said they found the front door unlocked.

In the meantime, neighbors and others continued to leave flowers, candles and messages in Mattea memory near the curb where the child was found unconscious early Saturday morning.

Arrangements for a memorial are pending.
60 comment(s)

Napa wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:53 AM:

" Such a large tragedy. Hopes and prayers
are with the family, and a special God given prayer for the Napa police that that God will grant them wisdom and direction to find the driver. No one wins in a loss like this. Only pain and suffering prevail. "

Napa wrote on Jun 2, 2008 4:02 AM:

" Let us hope that justice will be served in this instance and the driver will be caught. This is a tragedy that cannot be weighed. "

hudds5 wrote on Jun 2, 2008 6:23 AM:

" Someone needs to come forward. It's natural to be scared when you are involved in this type of accident, but it becomes a crime when you allow your fears to take over and make you run. The longer you wait to turn yourself in, the more damage you will cause to everyone involved. Whoever did this should do the right thing and come forward. This won't bring the little girl back but it will give the family some closure. "

kbf wrote on Jun 2, 2008 6:38 AM:

" o.k. so now there was two witnesses who saw Mattea walking alone after 5 a.m. It is beyond me why two different people didn't stop to help. Two year olds do open doors, if they are unlocked or are the kind that unlocks when you turn the handle. "

richaelsmommie wrote on Jun 2, 2008 7:26 AM:

" People please come forward and tell the police and who ever is investgating this what you saw. This is just aweful. I am the mother if a 2 1/2 year old and my heart is just broken. I feel so sorry for this family of this beautiful little girl. Justice needs to be served. May this little girl rest in Gods hands and watch over her family. "

wonmore wrote on Jun 2, 2008 8:28 AM:

" In 48 hours, there is little information. What is going on here? How she was outside is already known. Why don't we know? "

wrongsideofthetrax wrote on Jun 2, 2008 8:53 AM:

" please, adults everywhere, watch out for the children - I cannot believe witnesses did not protect this child. It's bad enough to find a child wandering alone, perhaps scared, in a store... but to see a toddler on the street and not do anything? My heart is broken for that little girl and for anyone who feels "it's none of my business" - shame on you. "

Dutchgirl wrote on Jun 2, 2008 9:32 AM:

" I have stopped and helped lost dogs get back to their owners many many times in Napa.
I most certainly would have stayed with that little girl if I had been the person that saw her wonder around alone.
What possessed those 2 people who saw before she was hit, to just continue on without staying with the child and calling police or at least not leave her there alone...Unbelievable! "

NapaNana wrote on Jun 2, 2008 9:33 AM:

" I wasn't going to say anything, but now I am. GET OFF THE FAMILY!
I saw Mr. Mitchell on T.V. this morning. I remember meeting him and his wife and daughter in Walmart one day. Mattea started a conversation with my G-daughter. Her parents and I talked a little about smart spunky little girls out for adventure. They were a very happy loving family. The pride for his daughter sparkled in her fathers eyes.
I f any of you think that a 2 1/2 year old can't possibly figure out how to un-lock a door and escape.....get your heads out form under that blanket and wake up!
In 1960, a 2 1/2 year old girl escaped from her backyard. Mind you these were 6 ft. fences....locked gate. Her mom let her go out..checked on her...then she was GONE! As mom was calling for her, her grandmother got a phone call. She was found on HWY 37 and Broadway in Vallejo. She was almost ran over by a truck! I will always remember the sound of the screeching tires and the look on that poor mans face as he scooped ME up out of the HWY and ran to the side of the road with me to the gas station. They knew who I was....because I had escaped before! I remember how hard it was to get over the fence...but believe me there are ways...and I found them.
Today I cried for this family...for the loss of such a beautiful child. She stamped a memory on my heart in just the brief time I talked with her. Hugs and loves to you Mom and Dad.
Rest in Peace sweet Angel....... "

JCampbell wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:02 AM:

" My brother, who died before I was born, died in a similiar way in 1959. He got out of a locked, gated yard and was hit by a train. Until my father's death in 1999 he grieved for his son. My father was stationed in Germany and left his son in the care of his (then) wife. My father never spoke of my brother, the brother I still grieve for that I never had the chance to meet.

My heart breaks for this family. The what if's will live on in ther minds forever. Sadly children, no matter how loved and protected, can put themselves in harms way. Having children of my own I have always tried to protect them as much as I can. Always knowing the reality is that you can't always protect them no matter how much you want to.

My prayers and thoughts go out to all of those involved in this tragedy. "

cathyodom wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:21 AM:

" This is a very sad tragedy. I wasn't sure from yesterday's paper what had happened. Now, being at 5:15AM, looks like the toddler woke up and went outside. This is very scary... I have a son who sleep walks, and we keep the door double bolted, but what if he got out while we were all dead asleep, and got hit by a car? This is a very scary possibility, and a horrible tragedy for this family. "

hayleybayley wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:34 AM:

" yes i totally agree that toddlers are good at finding ways of getting out. i did it myself when i was young and was later found on the railroad tracks that ran behind my home. my name is hayley and i am the step aunt of mattea. betty had adopted me into the family when me and jolene were in high school because i had bad living conditions. mattea was such the sweetest thing. the cutest curly-strawberry blond girl ever. she loved books and always wanted someone to read to her. she would often pick books out and pretend to read the herself. i cant believe someone would do this to a child, let alone a human being. i pray that they are found and get chaged with what they deserve. i am currently in iraq at the moment and trying to come home to help support everyone. thank all of you who are praying for my family. god bless you all. "

skiph wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:36 AM:

" I got out of my crib and house when I was still wearing diapers once. Had decided to visit my grandparents down the street without telling my dad (who was napping on the couch). Luckily a neighbor spotted me in the street and followed me all the way to my grandparents porch. It's tough, but it happens unfortunately. This is a great reminder for parents out there to "childproof" their house and points of entry/exit.

My main question is with the Hispanic woman who alerted Juvenile Hall to the situation, but couldn't go out there and grab the kid. All adults are considered "parents" in a situation like that. You have to look out for your fellow human....what gives? "

mytwocents wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:40 AM:

" My two year old grandaughter was lost for a short time in the new super- walmart last week. Every person in line with my daughter and several employees searched until they found her. This is the norm. This case haunts me, I just can not imagine why it was so different at 0530 on Saturday. "

sammy wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:55 AM:

" NapaNana, your post gave me goosebumps,.... I appreciate you writing,...... my heart breaks for this family as well, and I obviously hold no blame on them,...... but I am disturbed that the pedestrian that originally saw this angel baby didn't take her by the hand and walk her to Juvenile Hall. I cannot even fathom what they must be feeling. We have to live with the attitude that God called Mattea home,....otherwise how does one make it through this. (((((((((Mattea's Family))))))) "

upvalley wrote on Jun 2, 2008 11:31 AM:

" Nobody will ever be the same, definitley not the family, not the woman who saw her on the street, not the driver or drivers who drove by. It does no good to use our energy to blame and wonder "what if". I only hope they catch the driver. And please, let's use our energy to help--It is very difficult to plan your child's funeral. All who say they can "imagine", no, you can't. Please someone let us know how to help...and may this little Angel rest in peace. "

vocal-de-local wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:01 PM:

" Sammy, the lack of response from the Hispanic pedestrian may have involved language barriers. perhaps she felt uncomfortable coaxing a young child to the side of the road for fear that the parents were close by or might run out of their house shouting at her. That may explain why the pedestrian sought help from someone else.

Also, maybe the child was on the side of the road at that point and the woman thought she was out of danger.

But another thing to consider is that in some South of the Border countries, children walk the streets at all ages. I've visited many Southern Countries and the people are much less protective of their children than we are. This woman, on some level, may have not responded out of fear, or because she wasn't certain whether or not this was a cultural norm. Or maybe she felt it was not really any of her business and left it up to someone else to deal with.

It's not fair to blame her. In fact it's not fair to blame anyone really, not even the driver. You do not expect a toddler to run out in the street at that time in the morning. I do blame the driver for the hit and RUN though. But I doubt the driver was at fault unless he was under the influence of a substance.

This is just one of those terribly unfortunate situations. If the driver had stopped, it's doubtful anyone would be blaming him right now. "

Straight Talk wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:04 PM:

" I'll ask this one more time since no one responded the first time I posed this question: Should there be a stop sign at the intersection of Old Sonoma where Walnut connects? It's a long cross-walk, near family residential, school and a major playground. There are no stop signs anywhere from Jefferson to Hwy.12.

I'm afraid if we do not do something to slow traffic in this area another child and family will suffer the same tragedy.

I don't live in this area... so maybe it's not a good idea. Just curious to hear from people who live near and travel that road. "

Dutchgirl wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:15 PM:

" Vocal-de-local - I appreciate your suggestion that maybe the woman was afraid to help the child or there was a language barrier, but come on! Any adult with half a brain would have realized that under any circumstances, it is NOT normal for a toddler to be roaming the streets in the dark by herself. It should have set off an alarm in the woman...no matter what. Someone has to be braindead to not know by instinct, that staying with the child until an adult arrives, is the thing to do... "

sammy wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:16 PM:

" Vocal de local, you are likely 100 percent accurate, and I appreciate your input. Thank you "

NapaNana wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:24 PM:

" I know Sammy.....Me too. Times surely have changed havn't they? This woman that saw her was more than likely afraid to touch someone elses child. You know how people are these days. At least she tried to get her help. Yes too late, but she tried. She too will never be the same. I don't think that this whole town will ever be the same. Knowing there is a monster out there...... "

sammy wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:27 PM:

" and furthermore vocal de local.... I am thankful that the pedestrian made the attempt to find help for Mattea. I was not being fair to her. Sometimes I respond with what I would have done, instead of being thoughtful that somebody else would do it differently. "

hawkeye wrote on Jun 2, 2008 1:00 PM:

" I agree. We live in a fearful, accusatory and litigous society now. At least the pedestrian did SOMETHING! You just don't know what you would do until it happens to you. It didn't happen in this case, but mommy and daddy could be fighting and the kid panics and runs away and the parents could be looney enough to sue you or accuse you if you touch their kid. But I would think to at least call 911 and make sure the child doesn't wander into the street after seeing the parents absent. Nonetheless, nobody is to blame except the driver who didn't want to get caught. If the driver was indeed driving a sedan as indicated as a possibility, then he/she KNEW he/she hit something unless he/she was zonked out on drugs. Either way, he/she is responsible. Let's not blame anyone else. Let peace and justice prevail! "

cathyodom wrote on Jun 2, 2008 1:14 PM:

" Hopefully, the person who drove the car will step up soon and be responsible and report themselves to the police. I'd rather have someone step up to the plate and own up to the crime now. Otherwise I'll be looking suspiciously at everyone in town. "

born&raisedhere wrote on Jun 2, 2008 1:43 PM:

" I know for a fact that a 2.5 yr old child can easily exit a locked house - my little step-brother, on several occasions, managed to leave his mother's house and would be found wandering around the napa river.

I send Mattea's family my most heart-felt condolences.

Something is terribly wrong in this town with the number of children being struck by hit and run vehicles. "

starling wrote on Jun 2, 2008 1:45 PM:

" I am so so sorry for this poor family and the pain they are feeling. I myself have lost a child and know that there is nothing worse you can experience. One thing that is bothering me though is the fact that some people seem to still be putting blame on the woman pedestrian. I have to say that I, myself, would of taken control of the child and not thought about any possible consequences. It seems to me that this poor woman did think about them and did the only thing she felt she could of to help. If you really think about it, if this woman was to have this child in hand and the police who had just taken a report on the missing child had seen her, she would of been arrested first, questioned later. Any of us would have. Granted, she didn't know the police had been called already but she obviously knew something was wrong. This just goes to show how our society has changed so much that people are afraid to help anyone anymore, even a child. People are afraid to come forward as witnesses because of retribution, afraid to drag someone from a burning car because of possible lawsuits, afraid to even give comfort to another's child because of possibly being labeled a pedophile. Whan it really comes down to it, don't blame the reluctant people out there, blame society and what we have allowed it to become. "

Napachild wrote on Jun 2, 2008 2:01 PM:

" This is my second comment regarding this tragedy because I can't get it out of my mind. I think its going to haunt me for a long time. First of all, I know how it feels to lose a child. My son may have been 23 years old, but the pain is the same and he died in 1995--suddenly. He suffered from diabetes. Had I been there that weekend, (or anybody for that matter), he still would be alive. I would imagine Mattea's family feels the same way. That's why I hurt so deeply for them. When my son (the one who died) was 2 years old, he figured out how to open the front door. Even though I had child proof gadgets on them to keep him from doing that. At the time, I didn't have dead bolt locks on the doors. One morining while I was still asleep, I heard a knock on the door and the water meter readers were there with my son in tow. They asked if he were my little boy. I said yes, and they told me they had found him wandering down the street. So, I know it is possible for a 2-year old child to open doors that aren't dead bolted. I have a 2-year old granddaughter now and she can open the door. Thankfully my son has dead bolt locks he keeps locked. I still don't understand why 2 people that saw Mattea wandering in the street didn't intervene directly and stay with her. Evidently the police don't understand either. May God bless and comfort this poor family!! I truly understand how they feel. "

Mr_Napa wrote on Jun 2, 2008 2:17 PM:

" Very sad news. "

mytwocents wrote on Jun 2, 2008 2:28 PM:

" FYI: The Good Samaritan laws (acts) in the United States and Canada are laws/acts protecting from blame those who choose to aid others who are injured or ill. They are intended to reduce bystanders' hesitation to assist, for fear of being sued or prosecuted for unintentional injury or wrongful death. "

tvchick wrote on Jun 2, 2008 3:01 PM:

" I am truly sorry for the family of this little girl, and also for the police officers who had to respond to the scene. I hope we all don't forget this when school is out this month and there are lots of kids of all ages out and about. Please slow down, give pedestrians the right of way, stay off the phone, lets do it for Mattea. Don't let her die without making a difference in Napa County, and making us more aware of problems we must face here. I am so deeply saddened by this tragedy, and my kids also could open the door at 2 so please lets not cast blame. Mattea, we will not forget you, I will think of you everytime I stop to let kids walk across the street and the next time I find another lost child in Mervyn's (happens alot). God Bless you and your family. "

napaao wrote on Jun 2, 2008 3:39 PM:

" life comes at you fast. rip lil girl, i cant believe someone hit her and just kept going!!!! :( "

napak wrote on Jun 2, 2008 4:17 PM:

" All Three of my children were able to unlock deadbolts before they turned TWO! I had to put a lock way up high that only adults could reach to keep them in safely. Just the deadbolt is not good enough. That being said, I am MORTIFIED that anyone would leave a child to wander in the street alone!!! Who are these people and WHY???? If you see a child out alone, you stay with it to keep it safe until you can get help. Please, if anyone ever sees a child alone like this don't leave them. This could have been prevented. This child was killed not only by the driver of the car that hit her but by the pedestrian and/or possible other witness who said they saw a child wandering but did nothing. Children are everybodys responsiblity. We need good people to help when help is needed. So Sad. "

Skip M. wrote on Jun 2, 2008 4:23 PM:

" I think many of us have thought about this story from time to time ever since first reading about it. Some have suggested looking at people that go to work in the early morning hours. I would take that one step further, talk to the people that make the early morning newspaper deliveries in that area. The reason I say this is that I once did this job. You have a car filled with newspapers to the point that it is sitting on the axels and there is barely enough room for you to drive the vehicle. You are racing along trying to get all the papers delivered before 6:00am. You are frequently swerving from side to side throwing papers, and when you are running between drops, you are shifting loads in order to be ready for the next batch. Your eyes are frequently off the road since you don’t really expect any surprises. The dull thud of clipping something (a child) with your fender would in fact sound and feel like a pothole. Rear view mirrors would be severely obstructed, so even if you tried to see what is was, you would not likely realize what happened.
I don’t know any more facts than anyone else in this forum. But based on the facts I do know, this would be my SPECULATION. "

Jenny wrote on Jun 2, 2008 4:33 PM:

" I am just in shock about how everything went about. I am sorry but how do you see and 2 year old at 5AM and not stop and grab them. Anyone could have stoped grabed the childs hand then caled 911 right then. People are that stupid to drive or walk past a child. It dosent make any sense. You think a child parent is going to yell at you for helping there child out of the street!! YOU COULD HAVE SAVED HER LIFE!!!!! I am jus disgusted with how some people think!!! "

pianocrazee wrote on Jun 2, 2008 5:22 PM:

" Please be on the lookout for that white chrome trimmed 80s american made sedan... especially any cars that have suspicious damage/discoloring... They might have already cleaned the car off, but luminol will still work. "

Dirty Napkin wrote on Jun 2, 2008 6:30 PM:

" I had this discussion at school today while picking up my child. My thought is I would have yelled at her in a stern voice to get out of the road and go home. But I would never touch a child I dont know. People this day and age are so very suspitious of anyone and anything involving children.. Who knows, maybe you could be accused of kidnapping, because this child was small enought not to be able to explain that she wondered out of the house all on her own. My friend said she would have grabbed her and taken her around door to door.. And that she cant beleave that no one did.. It was like she was blaming the woman who hesitated to help.. But if thats the case she should blame the parents for not having a lock on the door high enough that a child can't reach, or at the very least, the child safety balls on the door knob. Come on over I have lots left over! "

Suze wrote on Jun 2, 2008 6:34 PM:

" I too have been following this sad story. It astonishes me that this baby girl was seen but not tended to by any of the folk who saw her. Are not all children 'ours?' How could you go past a baby on the road at that hour of the morning and not know something was very wrong? How extremely selfish to avoid 'getting involved!' Skip's speculation is a good one. My speculation is that the person who hit this baby did not have 'paperwork.' But I bet their heart is aching too, like everyone else. "

1969 wrote on Jun 2, 2008 7:27 PM:

" WHY WOULD ANYONE THINK IT'S OK FOR A 2 YR.OLD TO BE WALKING,ALONE,AT 5:15AM AND NOT STOP AND CALL THE POLICE AND WAITE WITH HER UNTIL THEY ARRIVE??? YOU HAVE TO KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THAT PICTURE! WHAT BETTER TIME TO USE YOUR CELL PHONE AND SOME BRAINS! "

Napachild wrote on Jun 2, 2008 7:43 PM:

" To Skip M and others that are trying to excuse the driver that hit this precious little girl. Please don't!! I truly believe it was someone without "papers" as one reader said--no license, no insurance and even possibly drunk. I also wouldn't be surprised if he/she got out and moved Metthea to the curb where she was found. Either that or she was thrown there. I for one don't believe this driver didn't know he/she had hit Metthea. I only hope he/she is caught soon. And as for the motorist and the pedestrian that both saw her wandering in the street--well, you will have to live with the knowledge you could have prevented her death and you did nothing. "

NapaCA wrote on Jun 2, 2008 7:59 PM:

" Is reasonable to suspect a Hit and Run involves an individual already in violation of the law before the accident occurred. Alternatively, the driver may just be morally bankrupt, or some combination thereof.

On May 6 it was reported that during a DUI checkpoint, of 35 citations issued, 26 were for suspended license or the complete absence of one.

~~That’s 75% of all citations awarded.~~ Does anyone but me view this as a huge problem?

If we extrapolate this figure to the driving population of Napa, the number is staggering.

Let’s connect the dots… These are people already in violation of the law. When it comes to an accident, why would we expect that they would ‘do the right thing’ and stop? Furthermore, it is doubtful that the vehicle they are driving illegally is insured, another violation of the law.

Given two Hit and Runs in as many days, law enforcement should focus its effort on getting illegal drivers off the streets. And why wait for a DUI checkpoint…what harm is there in a few random ‘legally licensed to drive’ checkpoints?

Given the tragedy of late, this goes beyond protecting our youth. It speaks to those of us who are law-obeying, tax-paying citizens at risk on the road with those who flagrantly disobey the basic requirements required to exercise the ‘privilege’ of driving a vehicle. "

mytwocents wrote on Jun 2, 2008 9:54 PM:

" NapaCA: Given two Hit and Runs in as many days, law enforcement should focus its effort on getting illegal drivers off the streets. And why wait for a DUI checkpoint…what harm is there in a few random ‘legally licensed to drive’ checkpoints? This is already happening. The police have been pulling over carloads of men in old beater cars for years. My question is this: What can we do as a community to keep one another and our children safe ? "

napathoughts wrote on Jun 2, 2008 10:36 PM:

" Bytander Apathy it is called when one expects others around them to take action even though they are aware they themselves should get involved. It is a proven and documented phenomenon.

Just earlier this year a women who picked up three kids walking to school on the freeway was apprehended, then questioned by police for having done her good deed. This paper reported that the officer told her she should not have done what she did.

You lose with what ever right path you choose some times. "

wheezygirl wrote on Jun 2, 2008 11:49 PM:

" This all makes me think of my neighbors. They let their children about 5, 3 or 4 and 2 play outside without supervison daily. The 2 year old is always out by herself with their front door closed and she is always playing in the car by herself. I stop what I am doing and I watch out for her through my window, praying nothing bad will happen to her. Several months ago 2 of them, one being the 2 year old ran out in the street and almost got hit by a car, the parents did not even come out until they were being yelled for. I worry for these children and wonder why they have them when they really don't care about them. I worry that I should call the authorities, for now I just keep on eye on them, I hope they read about Mattea and wake up before it is too late. Rest in peace Mattea. God Bless you and your family. "

MOM67 wrote on Jun 3, 2008 12:09 AM:

" I LOVE TVCHICKS COMMENT WELL SAID IM FEELING SUCH SADNESS ABOUT THE WHOLE SITUATION NOTHING I CAN SAY WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE ALL I CAN ASK IS IF YOU CAN. NEVER FORGET THEM AND THE BABY IT MAY THE ONLY THING THIS FAMILY HAS TO SURVIVE THIS TRAGEDY AND I WANTED TO SAY ALOT OF TIMES I READ SOME INAPPROPITE COMMENTS AND IM SHOCKED BUT THIS TIME IM SO PROUD TO BE FROM NAPA YOU ALL ARE SHOWING THAT NAPA PRIDE THE SPIRIT OF WE TAKE CARE OF OR FAMILIES!!!! GOD BLESS US ALL AND OFCOURSE THAT BUETIFUL ANGEL..... "

rebeldog wrote on Jun 3, 2008 2:08 AM:

" This tragedy was disturbing, but what came into my mind and every coworker that I asked about what they would have done was one in the same; I would have been very reluctant to do anything.
The first thing I thought was oh great, I get a chance to be branded a child molester for the rest of my life and destroy my family. If fate smiled on me, I may get off just getting tazered by the police for in their minds kidnapping or molesting the girl. God help me if the parents not wanting to admit their shortcomings reported her kidnapped and Amber Alerts were flying around. If that was the case it would come down to whether or not I had the fortitude to fight back at the cops who were bent on proving themselves by taking down Napa’s number one criminal. If I was lucky enough to fend off their shotgun tactics by using her as a human shield long enough for some real law enforcement to show up and allow me to surrender, I could at least survive the ordeal long enough to say goodbye to my family during the long court case and sitting on death row.
Of everyone I talked too, the only solutions we could come up with was setting a fire so that the fire department would show up and find the girl, or my solution of setting flares in the road, calling 911 on my cell phone in the hope of it being an alibi for the court date that I know I will have, writing please don’t kill me all over my shirt, and refusing to take my hands off my head so the police will have a harder time in justifying killing me for attempted murder and kidnapping. "

matt@newspeak wrote on Jun 3, 2008 8:26 AM:

" To the driver sought in this case, or anyone who may know whom the driver is: it is time to come forward to the police.

The first chance to do the right thing has passed, but there is still time to do something right now and begin healing what has happened. That you are scared is understandable, but the sooner you come forward, the easier it will be for the family, the community and yourself. Do it today.

The rest of us can draw a lesson too. We are all guilty at times of driving just a bit too fast, or aggressively, or while distracted. Operating a vehicle is the most dangerous thing most of us do all day.

A vehicle can neither stop or swerve as effectively as many drivers imagine it can, especially at high speeds. Let's all slow down- drive the posted limit. If a driver can't see the license plate and/or rear tries of the car in front of him/her- they're too close. Physics dictates he/she won't be able to stop in time if the car in front has to stop. Expect people to do what they're not supposed to do. Defensive driving is not about what's 'right' its about looking out for people not being where they're expected- setting indigantion aside and protecting yourself and others. Other drivers run stop signs and red lights and change lanes unexpectedly- and sometimes children may have wandered away from safety- as in this tragic case.

God bless Mattea and comfort her family. At these sad times, Rev. 21:4 comes to my mind: "He shall wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain..." "

cathyodom wrote on Jun 3, 2008 9:12 AM:

" Skip, good point about the paper delivery, maybe someone out there saw something. Usually my paper is delivered early on the weekdays, but later on Sunday. I leave at 5:15 during the week to go to work but am home Saturday/Sunday and not commuting. What other types of delivery vehicles, trucks, grocery delivery/bread/vegetables are out early on Sunday morning? I see a lot of the old sedans driivng out into the vineyards that early in the morning on the weekdays. Maybe the police can canvass the Napa/Sonoma vineyards, looking for this car or damage to it. "

mardog wrote on Jun 3, 2008 11:14 AM:

" I have kids myself and I am very sad about this tragic accident in our community. I was born and raised in this community and I am not sure what has happened to Napa. My daughter walks to school and has to pass the memorial on Old Snoma Rd for lil Mattea. She has so many questions as to why? Why would someone not attend to the little girl that was roaming outside at that time of the morning? Why if someone hit her, why wouldn't they stop, Mom. All I can say to my daughter, without being negative, is we don't know exactly what the circumstances are of the person who saw her nor do we know what the issue was with the person who hit her. I myself, would've stopped to attend to the little girl if I saw her roaming. That is just how I am. If someone was going to blame me for child abduction or something else, I would gladly be takin into the police station and give them my story and let them sort through the made up story. At least I know I did a good deed and the baby was safe. Now for the person who hit her please come forward so this family can start their healing process. Without the unanswered questions they have, it will be hard for closure. If anyone saw something, please come forward, regardless if you are illegal, scared, unsure just get your information out there to the police. You may not realize you hit something. If you traveled Old Sonoma Rd at that time of the morning regardless of why, just contact the police, you may have info that will help in this case and not even realize it. Rest in Peace, Mattea "

Gator wrote on Jun 3, 2008 11:33 AM:

" Bottom line. Whoever did this, now knows that they did this. Some have suggested that he/she may not have known that they even hit anything. Maybe then, but not now. Now it is deliberate and obvious that this person has no intention of turning themselves in.
Please stop accusing "Mexicans" because some feel that they ALL drive illegally. There are more than a few "Americans" out there driving illegal. I think that everyone is just so freaked out by this whole thing that they have to point fingers where ever they can. "

NapaCA wrote on Jun 3, 2008 12:03 PM:

" To mytwocents: Thank you for letting me know; I was unaware this was already occurring.

Your question: What can we do as a community to keep one another and our children safe ?

It is a sad fact that tragic events do and will continue to occur. I think the better question is what could have been done to mitigate this tragedy? If the driver had the decency to stop and assist the child, we are left to wonder if reacting humanely in the crucial minutes after the accident would would have contributed to saving her life.

Accidents will happen, even against our greatest efforts to prevent them. It's how we respond to them that separates us as individuals. "

wtrfwlr wrote on Jun 3, 2008 12:05 PM:

" given the time of day that this occured, the perp could very well have been driving a bigger sized vehicle, and with such low light, he/she may not have realized what had actualy happened. still may not know! "

Skip M. wrote on Jun 3, 2008 1:36 PM:

" Rebeldog: I could not disagree with you more. You don’t have to touch the child to prevent her from getting into danger. Simply place yourself between her and the area or object that poses a threat. I do this on many occasions, and have nearly always been thanked by the parent. The simple “Where’s your mommy and daddy?” often prompts the child to lead you right where they belong. Some people seem to be more concerned with their own necks than the life and safety of anything else, let alone a very small child. I have also gotten my share of dirty looks and accusations in these instances. The way I see it, call me what you will, point the finger (index or middle), whatever. People will jump to their own conclusions, often falsely. Oh well. I always know I am doing the right thing and that every child I encounter is safe in my presence. Even if an accusation were to go to the extent of police involvement, the scientific methods used today (DNA) would quickly show that I have not harmed any child. So when I see a child entering a danger zone, I will always act for the safety of that child, whatever the risk may be to me personally. "

kdbk wrote on Jun 4, 2008 10:17 PM:

" Some of you folks are freaking me out. What's this paranoia over stopping to help a lost, defenseless child on the street? Are you kidding. "Ooo, I might get arrested for being a pervert", "yikes, I don't dare help a child I don't know"... Say what?

Are you just aimlessly driving down the road at 5am? Would you really have that hard of a time telling the police that you are on the way to work/the market/the hospital etc. and that you stopped to help a kid? Do you look scarry or something. Do you drive a retired hearse? Are you scarred of black kitty cats and thunder too? Puleeeeze.

Men and women have sacrificed greatly throughout the ages to help save others. And yes, I understand the crazy world we live in today, of course. But when an adult is too afraid to stop and help a kid survive, then they have truly gone around the bend.

Heroes are HEROES BECAUSE THEY'VE RISKED SOMETHING TO HELP ANOTHER! It isn't supposed to be cheap and easy! "

starling wrote on Jun 5, 2008 3:38 AM:

" I've thought alot about this hit and run driver and can't help but feel that this is someone who was very possibly driving under the influence. The reason I think this could be true is because of the time and day that this occurred. At 5:30 or so in the morning on a Sunday, the chances of someone driving home from partying all Saturday night are very high. It would explain why they were afraid to stop and possibly why they hit her in the first place. Maybe the police need to hit some of the night clubs and ask some questions about anyone who was there with that type of vehicle Saturday night. I'm sure there would of been plenty of people in the parking lots that could of seen this driver. Just another idea to possibly pursue. RIP Mattea "

cellsitegod wrote on Jun 5, 2008 5:33 AM:

" Lets not worry about the events leading up to the accident. We all know what happened before was not intentional. It was tragic.
It's now 5:20 am the visibility is limited but not dark. There has been plenty of attention on this accident and I'm sure everyone in that neighborhood knows about it. Hitting that poor girl was an accident. But, why has not someone come forward? That is a crime!
Or, has the person not come forward because they have other reasons for not wanting to be found? Like the girl that was hit on her bicycle a while back? "

mytwocents wrote on Jun 6, 2008 11:45 AM:

" To the NVR and NPD- are there any updates on this case? I check back often in the hope there has been an arrest or at least some strong leads. Given the scope of this horrible accident I am sure there are others who would want to know as well. "

pianocrazee wrote on Jun 6, 2008 5:25 PM:

" mytwocents:

I definitely agree... Just today i saw
a white 80s cutlass with some minor damage--but i don't think a child could do any sort of damage to a steel car--which is frustrating because what evidence is there? The only evidence I can think of would be any blood that may have gotten on the car... but the longer you wait, the less evidence there is.. it's so frustrating that it brings me to tears to know that whoever hit her is driving aroud still, I'm sure, and obviously they're conscience is clear because if it were me--under any influence, under any circumstance possible, I would stop if I hit a child--for God's sake I'd stop even for a squirrel... I'm just ...disgusted with the situation. "

wheezygirl wrote on Jun 9, 2008 8:18 AM:

" I hope that the parents of Mattea have installed extra locks on their doors now I read that they have another child at home? As well as everyone else with children. Let's not let this happen again. God Bless the children. "

AMAZGRL wrote on Jun 16, 2008 11:58 AM:

" ABOUT A YEAR AGO MY BOYFRIEND WAS DRIVING DOWN FREEWAY DRIVE AT 6:30AM AND NOTICED ABOUT A 1 1/2 YEAR OLDD CHILD STANDING ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD HE STOPPED AND ASKED THE CHILD WHERE HE LIVED THE CHILD RAN BACK UP TO THE APARTMENTS. HE WAS ON PAROLE AND DIDN'T WANT THE FAMILY TO THINK ANYTHING SO HE CAME HOME GOT ME OUT OF BED AND TOOK ME OVER THERE TO MAKE SURE THAT THE CHILD WAS IN FACT INSIDE AND SAFE. HOW CAN ANYONE BE OKAY WALKING DOWN THE STREET SEEING A SMALL CHILD ALONE AND KEEP WALKING. SO TO THE DRIVER OF THE CAR I SINCERLY HOPE THAT ONE DAY YOU ARE CAUGHT. AND THE WOMAN WALKING I SINCERELY HOPE THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN, BECAUSE WHAT IF THAT WAS YOUR CHILD. TRAGEDY HAS NO PREJUDUSE IT CAN HAPPEN AT ANY TIME TO ANYONE AND ALL OF MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY OF THIS LITTLE GIRL. "

greeneyes18 wrote on Jun 23, 2008 6:11 PM:

" i think that woman should do time just for letting a baby be out at 5:30 in the morning and not do anything about it thats the crazyest thing i have ever heard if you can save someones life dont ask questions just do it! "

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