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JustMy$.02 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:16 AM:
Legal immigrants are a vital part to this region of the nation for sure, if not the whole country. But we cannot ignore the HUGE problems that ILLEGAL immigration presents.
And Im sorry but amnisty is not the answer. If we have room in this nation to just give immediate citizenship to any ILLEGAL immigrant, then we should honestly depart all those that got here completely disregarding our laws and regulations and give citizenship to those on the waiting lists around the world that are trying to get to this country legally, showing respect for our laws and regulations.
Just my $.02 "
hudds5 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:35 AM:
kevin wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:49 AM:
vonhelga wrote on Apr 30, 2008 12:11 PM:
Sickothis wrote on Apr 30, 2008 12:33 PM:
laloquera wrote on Apr 30, 2008 12:41 PM:
Dwayne wrote on Apr 30, 2008 12:50 PM:
sam wrote on Apr 30, 2008 1:03 PM:
mypoint wrote on Apr 30, 2008 1:12 PM:
musikluvr wrote on Apr 30, 2008 1:13 PM:
local81 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 1:43 PM:
Exasperated wrote on Apr 30, 2008 3:01 PM:
I don't have time to organize a counter march, but I'll certainly participate if someone wants to organize. Anyone out there who wants to plan a march to stand up for enforcing this country's laws?
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steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 3:10 PM:
Dwayne wrote on Apr 30, 2008 3:33 PM:
momtoo wrote on Apr 30, 2008 3:36 PM:
Hope INS goes for a nice walk in downtown napa Thursday night! "
winemd wrote on Apr 30, 2008 3:41 PM:
napabornandraised wrote on Apr 30, 2008 4:11 PM:
Sickothis wrote on Apr 30, 2008 4:19 PM:
steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 4:29 PM:
VJ07 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 4:42 PM:
kingsavage wrote on Apr 30, 2008 4:55 PM:
roadtrip wrote on Apr 30, 2008 5:17 PM:
someguyinnapa wrote on Apr 30, 2008 5:51 PM:
GREAT POST!
Very well said... you've left those of us that feel like you with nothing left to say!
Viva Legal! "
steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 6:17 PM:
irishman wrote on Apr 30, 2008 6:31 PM:
109823 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 7:13 PM:
illbeme wrote on Apr 30, 2008 7:37 PM:
l707 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 8:51 PM:
Marquis de Mark wrote on Apr 30, 2008 9:00 PM:
steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 9:05 PM:
aztecprincess wrote on Apr 30, 2008 9:07 PM:
kbf wrote on Apr 30, 2008 9:16 PM:
Abrie wrote on Apr 30, 2008 9:24 PM:
That's just my opion. Everyone is entitled to their own. "
Rocco wrote on Apr 30, 2008 9:57 PM:
l707 wrote on Apr 30, 2008 10:09 PM:
barefoot wrote on Apr 30, 2008 10:21 PM:
kdbk wrote on Apr 30, 2008 10:22 PM:
This would be the result in any country, involving any race or races of people throughout the world if their borders were massively trespassed over a long period of time. It's a matter of law and orderly society. Sure, many business owners in the U.S. have been greedy and taken advantage of poor illegal immigrants. But that's really beside the point.
For the benefit of everyone who lives in the U.S., of all races and backgrounds, the problem of illegal immigration needs to be solved or someday there will be no desire to immigrate here whatsoever because the place will have fallen to ruin. "
steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 10:59 PM:
steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:10 PM:
mypoint wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:19 PM:
steph wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:35 PM:
mikeb wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:46 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on Apr 30, 2008 11:58 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on May 1, 2008 12:39 AM:
Overcrowding reduces quality of living and that's why we are all feeling a little uncomfortable with eachother nowadays. This leads to nitpicking. I'm sure even southern migrants are feeling the squeeze. I just do not see many smiles on their faces anymore because their living quarters are now very crowded with multiple families and more on the way. The response and reaction to overcrowding is taking a toll on everyone.
One pattern I've noticed is that migrant workers come here and work hard, but the next generation does not want to work in agriculture any more than the offspring of longterm natives do. The second generation of migrant parents, raised and educated in America, are now competing for the same jobs as everyone else except they have an advantage of being bilingual. I would like to see some statistics on how this displacement has affected the unemployment rate of natives whose families have been here for three or four generations.
Americans are perfectly capable of doing their own fieldwork without the help of migrant workers. Migrant workers do not have some special human quality making them solely capable of hard work in the fields. We stood as independent farmer/fieldworkers for more than 400 years and we are capable of returning to it if we have to. We are not helpless without the migrant worker. We just need to reform our social system so that people will have greater incentive to take these jobs like in the old days. "
someguyinnapa wrote on May 1, 2008 2:10 AM:
Here are some...
2) We will withdraw our troops from all over the world, starting with Germany , South Korea , the Middle East , and the Philippines They don't want us there. We would station troops at our borders. No one allowed sneaking through holes in the fence.
3) All illegal aliens have 90 days to get their affairs together and leave We'll give them a free trip home. After 90 days the remainder will be gathered up and deported immediately, regardless of whom or where they are. They're illegal!!! France will welcome them.
4) All future visitors will be thoroughly checked and limited to 90 days unless given a special permit!!!! No one from a terrorist nation will be allowed in. If you don't like it there, change it yourself and don't hide here. Asylum would never be available to anyone. We don't need any more cab drivers or 7-11 cashiers..
5) No foreign 'students' over age 21. The older ones are the bombers. If they don't attend classes, they get a 'D' and it's back home baby.
I think that he might be on to something.
Then there is the issue of a march. How can illegals be allowed to claim our country's 1st ammendment rights to "freedom of speach" and the "right to assmeble peacefully?" Don't they have to get permission for a march that shut down traffic in downtown? How did thid thing get approved? What a joke!
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109823 wrote on May 1, 2008 6:07 AM:
illbeme wrote on May 1, 2008 6:59 AM:
Farmgirl wrote on May 1, 2008 7:36 AM:
izzy wrote on May 1, 2008 8:08 AM:
izzy wrote on May 1, 2008 8:11 AM:
Sandra wrote on May 1, 2008 8:32 AM:
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NapaNana wrote on May 1, 2008 8:53 AM:
I am all for free speach....and have marched a time or two myself back in the day. I just hope that his public march to be "heard" is conducted as well as you all have here. "
News_Chick wrote on May 1, 2008 9:29 AM:
Maybe some of the illegal 'citizens' could be thinned quickly...sort of one stop shopping for the INS teams. "
Sandra wrote on May 1, 2008 9:59 AM:
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Concerned Citizen wrote on May 1, 2008 10:20 AM:
This is how the problem began. Wages began to go down, benefits became "too costly" for businesses who preferred to hire the illegal workforce thus saving money on SSI, insurance, Fed. & state taxes, etc.
Then, this newly growing workforce decided to send profits and income home to Mexico rather than contributing to the economy of their newfound employment location...the U.S.
THIS IS HOW THE PROBLEM BEGAN. Then, Americans found they could not earn an honest wage for hard work because, as 1707 put it: "the only thing we came here is to have something better than what he didnt had in our country." Yes, you've succeeded in creating an underground work force, lowering wages, reducing the quality of life in this country, draining a social services system which, if we are to be honest, is forking out millions of $'s for this new low wage illegal workforce who does not make enough, does not have insurance, etc. and therefore depends on the state/Fed. govs. AND who have driven out the American worker who has too much pride to tap into the welfare system...instead; California is experiencing "White Flight."
This is what you, illegal southern border laborers, have done to the United States of America.
March on...you WILL NOT get my support! "
my2cents68 wrote on May 1, 2008 10:24 AM:
pernodboi wrote on May 1, 2008 11:39 AM:
I, of course, think it a little early to wear white and will probablw wear red. Hope to see everyone there (reagardless of race) to promote the internation working man (errrr.... I mean person). "
l707 wrote on May 1, 2008 12:08 PM:
Paisano wrote on May 1, 2008 1:06 PM:
eas001 wrote on May 1, 2008 1:08 PM:
selim wrote on May 1, 2008 1:37 PM:
asahigo wrote on May 1, 2008 1:38 PM:
toratora wrote on May 1, 2008 1:48 PM:
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napablogger wrote on May 1, 2008 2:18 PM:
The other point in this discussion is that indeed if we were able to boot all of them out that are illegal quickly, it would do tremendous harm to business. We do not have the labor to replace them and those against illegal immigration do not want to hear that, but it is true.
If vineyard wages doubled, the workers would leave other jobs to come here and wherever they left would suffer. Prices would inflate severely and it would work its way through the economy. One of the largest vegetable growers on the east coast who grows a lot of tomatos decided not to plant tomatos this year due to a lack of labor from all the illegals who have already left out of fear.
I think we need some form of forgiveness, work visas, something to smooth the transition. That is both necessary for business and for humanitarian reasons. And also, why should we suffer so much through the transition? Close the gate and work through the transition in a reasonable and humane manner. Some would call that amnesty but that is a term of propaganda. "
Miss HALLEY wrote on May 1, 2008 2:29 PM:
own goverment we would send troops in
to help their government.
This is a no win situation. "
steph wrote on May 1, 2008 4:08 PM:
l707 wrote on May 1, 2008 6:46 PM:
109823 wrote on May 1, 2008 6:51 PM:
aztecprincess wrote on May 1, 2008 7:12 PM:
"SI SE PUEDE" LE DUELA A QUIEN LE DUELA. "
Rocco wrote on May 2, 2008 7:13 AM:
If you’re going to rehash the same defeatist illegal alien apologist talking points, at least try to think them through for a second. Has “everyone” benefited from illegal immigrants depressing wages? Why did Cesar Chavez’s brother actually spend time in jail for beating up illegals at the border if they were such a great thing for “everybody?”
How about the lie that food prices would soar if we paid farmworkers what they deserve…how is that possible if the cost of production is usually less than 6% of the total retail price??? Since when has anybody suggested that rounding up and deporting 20 million illegal aliens all at once is a viable option? Forget the fence! Merely withholding services and then doing SS number verification would halt the flow immediately. Taxing Western Union money transfers out of our country at 33% or more wouldn’t be a bad idea either; how long will the bathtub of our economy have any water in it if we leave the drain open? We need to stop the hand-wringing, whiney attitude, enforce our current laws, and keep our country secure and strong. Si se Puede!
"
Paisano wrote on May 2, 2008 8:08 AM:
Paisano wrote on May 2, 2008 9:54 AM:
Yetiyet wrote on May 2, 2008 10:06 AM:
toratora wrote on May 2, 2008 10:43 AM:
First off I never said anything about mexicans not liking americans If you read what I said instead of accusing me of stereotyping people (thats an old trick and I do not fall for that B.S.) I was talking about their government and be assured they look at us to be used and taken advantaged of. What a idiotic question do I know a hispanic immigrant of course I do, Anybody living in napa does "Si puede ".
To your second point have I ever dealt with the Mexican government many times and It has never been nothing but a headache!
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Rocco wrote on May 2, 2008 11:09 AM:
Paisano wrote on May 2, 2008 12:23 PM:
Thepeople wrote on May 2, 2008 1:21 PM:
Tim wrote on May 2, 2008 2:23 PM:
They have come out with a comic book
entitled "The Guide for the Mexican Migrant," the 32-page book published by Mexico's Foreign Ministry. It teaches mexicans how to get into the country illegally and get public aid.
"This guide is intended to give you some practical advice that could be of use if you have made the difficult decision to seek new work opportunities outside your country," the book says, according to the Arizona Republic.
So yes, the Mexican Govt. is trying to take advantage of Americans. "
Tim wrote on May 2, 2008 2:58 PM:
Paisano wrote on May 2, 2008 3:29 PM:
Tim wrote on May 2, 2008 4:04 PM:
Don't twist the subject matter. "
napablogger wrote on May 2, 2008 9:53 PM:
The car wash on Jefferson still only charges $6 for a car wash, the same three Mexican guys have been there five years at least. Try finding a car wash for 6 bucks anywhere without immigrant labor, bet you can't.
I agree with Steph 100%, I am no fan of illegal immigration. But we made our bed and now we have to lie in it.
6% for production is big for the farmers, btw, because profits are not much more than that often times. "
kdbk wrote on May 2, 2008 11:33 PM:
Oh, and don't for get the fact that the past 12 months have shown a great decrease in the number of illegal immigrants coming in to the U.S., and that the next five years we will see even greater reductions as more and more Americans of all races strive to control this problem. Yikes, spooky, huh?
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samaker wrote on May 2, 2008 11:50 PM:
asahigo wrote on May 3, 2008 1:11 AM:
cellsitegod wrote on May 3, 2008 6:16 AM:
Have you looked at a construction site lately? The building trades used to be an honorable trade for a tax paying citizen. Try supporting a family legally now on what they pay a carpenter.
This country was built strong because you could become anything you wanted. As long as you became a citizen, worked hard and pay your taxes. How dare anyone say they deserve a free handout because there is a program for it! My taxes pay for those programs because I am a citizen and I contribute to my country.
My wife is from Europe. We spent 7 months of paperwork and money getting her here legally. She has a social security number, a job, pays her taxes and obeys our laws.
Us and our forefathers worked hard to make this country great and desirable for others to live in. We're willing to let you in and share in what has been accomplished. Just do it legally and help contribute to keeping it great.
NO GREEN CARD, NO RIGHTS! "
Rocco wrote on May 3, 2008 7:48 AM:
kck wrote on May 3, 2008 8:05 AM:
merri wrote on May 3, 2008 8:34 AM:
common sense wrote on May 3, 2008 3:05 PM:
areyouserious wrote on May 3, 2008 4:51 PM:
great idea!
Keep up the good work! "
Rocketman wrote on May 3, 2008 7:32 PM:
Enforce and Obey the law. This is what we would be told in Mexico; or get out! "
109823 wrote on May 3, 2008 8:57 PM:
Sandra wrote on May 4, 2008 9:53 AM:
mypoint wrote on May 4, 2008 1:42 PM:
pharper wrote on May 4, 2008 6:39 PM:
For those of you who didn't get it, the above was sarcasm. Plus--if you're so concerned about the actual problem (rather than three individuals), don't you think it's more appropriate to go to the authorities, who can take care of it? By merely preventing these illegal immigrants from working at honest jobs, you just sound spiteful and vindictive--not like you're actually trying to do good for the country. "
James wrote on May 4, 2008 8:29 PM:
steph wrote on May 5, 2008 8:27 AM:
Paisano wrote on May 5, 2008 8:28 AM:
Paisano wrote on May 5, 2008 8:32 AM:
merri wrote on May 5, 2008 9:04 AM:
JELLYBEAN wrote on May 5, 2008 10:28 AM:
vocal-de-local wrote on May 5, 2008 10:53 AM:
Paisano wrote on May 5, 2008 12:59 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on May 5, 2008 5:52 PM:
Do you consider it "hateful" when someone tells the truth about the human growth problem and it's effects on all of us? Mexico need to control the amount of children produced. They need planned parenthood, birth control etc. to get it's numbers under control. There is no way Mexico can provide for it's people when there are too many of them. Their answer is to send them over the border, making it someone else's problem. It's not right.
Btw, I don't know what you're talking about when you say "useless 411". before you jump to conclusion, actually watch the video from start to finish. "
pharper wrote on May 5, 2008 7:58 PM:
Merri, having tons of Hispanic friends doesn't somehow "absolve" you or make you seem more worldly/accepting. Kudos for entering the United States legally, but the country isn't "spinning out of control" because of illegal immigration; if anything, it's spinning out of control because of a war we didn't need, and the scores of people who feel that kicking out mainly Hispanic Californian laborers will somehow help the economy.
Vocal-de-local, a video designed to somehow “scare” people into action (and on Youtube, no less) is probably not the best source for information. I haven’t actually seen it, I’ll admit that, but if you’re going to cite outside sources, don’t use Youtube for one; videos that bloggers post on the internet are NOT reliable sources for information. And as for the horrible stereotype you seem to see as the gospel, it isn’t only Mexicans contributing to the population explosion. The human growth problem is enormous, of course, but it isn’t the fault of just one ethnicity. The citizens of Mexico probably do need more information about birth control, and services like the ones Planned Parenthood provides, but so do Americans. The more people who fight to teach only abstinence in schools, the more politicians elected to office who want to refuse to give the people already in America the right to information about birth control/abortion, the bigger the human growth problem gets. It has NOTHING to do with illegal immigration.
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luv2surf wrote on May 5, 2008 9:48 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on May 5, 2008 10:45 PM:
Yes it does. Over population is the principal cause of people wanting to migrate. When there are too many people present in a country, there are fewer resources, fewer jobs etc, and the quality of life diminishes. Illegal or legal, those who migrate are not doing it just because they feel like it. They're trying to escape from something else. in the case of Mexico, they are escaping from lack of opportunity due to overcrowding. The Catholic Church can be blamed for this, at least in Mexico due to their policies against birth control.
And I am well aware of the worldwide population problem. However, without a body of water to separate populations, those in Mexico can easily make their population problem our problem. The U.S. would be at a slow growth if not for immigrants. But I do agree, we have a problem called enabling within our own country which should also be addressed and this is also an issue I am quite responsive too.
YouTube showed a very visual picture of the problem and I thought it was appropriate for those who don't like to read scientific literature. But I can certainly find information published by experts in the field if you want me to. Just let me know.
We must quit hiding our heads in the sand because our limited resources cannot possibly care for our growing worldwide population. Someone's going to suffer. I just don't think it should be us. We are not the ones growing beyond the natural capacities of the territory we live in. "
kdbk wrote on May 5, 2008 11:56 PM:
- over 100,000 illegal immigrants in our nation's prisons.
- massive fraud and abuse perpetrated on illegal immigrants by the human smugglers. (Have you heard the horror stories about the "drop houses"? Dozens of people held in some house with one poorly functioning bathroom...).
- Billions being spent on health care, education and other social services for illegal immigrants. (Have you heard of the many hospitals closing in the Southwest...are you paying attention at all?)
- Wage scales cut or stagnated in various industries throught the country because of the cheap labor supplied by illegal immigrants.
The list goes on. Not to mention that a large number of illegal immigrants have ZERO interest in assimilating in to American culture. That's really strange. Everything they go through to get here, then they just want to make "here" as much like Mexico as possible. Really strange.
"
funnyme wrote on May 6, 2008 6:14 AM:
March for Peace?
Faith?
Reflection?
Immigrant rights?
Can someone please explain the above points to me?
If only all of these "protesters" and the "people" orchestrating them had the guts to travel south to Mexico City, stand up in the middle of the Zocalo (Main Plaza), in front of Palacio Nacional (National Palace) and protest (Demanding!) the Mexican Government to stop the CORRUPTION right away so all of these illegal workers could go back home and get a job and live with and support their families. Protest (Demanding!) to stop the drug traffic where government officials at the least get their pockets filled up with drugs and money.
And then when all of that is "granted", come back here to the US and start protesting about your feelings being hurt because someone looked at you with the stink eye...Pathetic!
Corruption has been the problem since Spain colonized Mexico over 500 years ago. The latest war in Iraq started based in the fact that a corrupted dictator allowed terrorists to operate from his own government offices...I start to wonder if mexican dictatorship sounds anything like Iraq's.
And don't give me the "racist card". I was born and raised in Mexico City, came here legally and became a Naturalized American Citizen who gladly adopted the US culture by speaking and writing English all the time because...well...It is the US after all.
God bless America! "
Paisano wrote on May 6, 2008 8:30 AM:
Tim wrote on May 6, 2008 4:59 PM:
"Just" reform would mean putting the Guatemalans before the Mexicans since they earn half the wage a Mexican earns.
Next in line would be the Cubans, they too earn only half of what a Mexican earns in a year.
It is all about just wanting to feed their families and since the Cubans, Guatemalans, and many many other countries are worse off than Mexico, justice would demand that we bring them in first.
Wouldn't that be just and fair reform?
"
vocal-de-local wrote on May 7, 2008 12:35 AM:
Here are a few facts about Mexico's population:
the U.N. Population Division projects Mexico's population to grow from its current 100 million to 140 million within the next 50 years, a 40% increase. (The Census Bureau actually projects a higher 153 million in 2050, a 50 percent increase). Taken from U.N. Population Division 2002 Annex Tables and U.S. Census Bureau International Database, Summary demographic data.
Also read about Population momentum to understand why Mexico is in trouble - a tendency for population growth to continue even after replacement-level fertility (2.1 children per woman) has been achieved.
And you must take into account that some of Mexico's population is migrating elsewhere which certainly has some impact on population statistics in Mexico and elsewhere.
Mexico is the 11th largest population in the world. However, with the exception of a few, Mexico's continent is smaller than those countries with larger populations in the comparison analysis. Mexico is a very crowded place bound to worsen and I don't know how you can deny it.
Another problem is that much of Mexico is dry desert land not suitable for agriculture. Mexico lacks abundant water resources. It's just not wise for Mexico to continue on it's reproductive path without addressing the problem. Is it wise to have five mouths to feed when you can only afford one?
Paisano, I really hope you're not trying to imply that Mexico does not have a problem with it's level of population. Face it and deal with it.
"
areyouserious wrote on May 7, 2008 4:38 AM:
Catholics do not believe in birth control.
Most people living in Central America are Catholic.
Most ILLEGAL immigrants come from Central America.
Do the math... If 1+1=2
Then 2 Central American Catholics will soon = 8. I have seen it happen in my own MEXICAN CATHOLIC family....
Not me though! I am getting snipped! I have had my 2 kids! And I denounced the Catholic Religion years ago.... They could never tell me why they have statues of every saint in DIRECT defiance of the 1st commandemnet!
Truth and comedic relief all in one at your service! "
lahrgsp wrote on May 7, 2008 8:31 AM:
Its mostly not because they dont believe in it its that a lot dont know where to get it and I highly doubt they have free clinics in Mexico and there are many meany mexican who dont have tons of kids. "
vocal-de-local wrote on May 7, 2008 10:15 AM:
lahrgsp, 5 children? Well all I can say to anyone who has had too many children is: what's in the past is in the past. But as we move forward into a world of fewer resources, we must teach our children to limit the number of children they have.
Does anyone know the statistics on how expensive it is to raise and educate children today? It's pricey. Parents should evaluate both their personal costs to raise children AND costs to our environment. We really need to step up to that plate.
lahrgsp, do it for the five children you have. Teach them to think ahead about the impact of population on the environment and to consider limited resources when planning for families. Life will be much less complex and more enjoyable with fewer children to care for. Fewer children allows a parent to provide more attention to each child. And it's better for the earth. "
vocal-de-local wrote on May 7, 2008 10:21 AM:
I think we need to evaluate our priorities at this turning point of our history. Our goal should be providing free birth control for all food aid we hand out. It will be worth the cost to us, not initially, but in the future. "
109823 wrote on May 7, 2008 7:45 PM:
luv2surf wrote on May 7, 2008 11:54 PM:
areyouserious wrote on May 8, 2008 12:29 AM:
Ssshhhh!!!! Don't let your Dioceses leaders/Cardinals or even the Pope know about those BC things that you do. Just because you choose them does not mean that they are not frowned upon by the Catholic Church and His Holy Highness, the Pope. I spent 12 years at Catholic school. They preach abstinance rather than knowledge. And the fact is... well, kids want to experiment and fool around. This leads to teen pregancies. And without getting into all the ramifications of teaching kids about sex ed, I will point out that it is better to know about safe sex and practice it than to not know and not practice it. The Catholics that I went to school with were more of the don't ask, don't tell policy than to teach kids about safe sex.
Hence my statement is true; Catholics do not practice safe sex in most cases especially in 2nd and 3rd world countries. Central America is all 2nd and 3rd world countires. Ahhhh Brilliant deduction.
And seriously 5 kids? How can you afford to feed and clothe 5 kids? You must make a mint! Or you waited too long to practice safe sex.... Hmmmmm... "
my2cents68 wrote on May 8, 2008 4:57 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on May 9, 2008 1:33 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on May 9, 2008 10:39 PM:
"Good for you my2cents68. You exercised your critical thinking skills and they didn't like it, but it was a really important point to make. And I do believe that children of such mothers, who lack the resources to REALLY care for their offspring, do suffer as a result of government enabling.
I have a distant relative whose family has been on government assistance for three generations now. The first generation mother had FIVE kids all but two from different fathers, and she only partially raised one of them. The grandma raised one, but the others were turned over to the foster care system. She continued collecting welfare for the one child the grandma was raising. That child grew up to have FIVE children, ALL from different fathers. She attempted to raise them and collect welfare, but her inability to cope brought attention to social services who removed some of the kids. She had one child removed because of abuse. When she was released from jail on parole for drug issues, she left the state pregnant and continued using drugs while pregnant, just like with the other babies.
The third generation is now beginning to use the system. It remains to be seen where that goes. Hopefully welfare reform is coming to their neighborhood SOON, before another generation of FIVE unloved, unwanted kids are born. I asked one of the third generation kids what he wanted to do with his future. He said he was GOING to have kids at age 20. I asked, "what about college, what about whether you can AFFORD to have children". There was complete silence. "