Ex-St. Helena coach charged with sex crimes
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By JILLIAN JONES, Register Staff Writer
A former St. Helena High school coach was arrested Wednesday on four felony charges of child sexual assault involving two teenage girls.
Herschel Sandler, 45, currently of Napa, is accused of having a sexual relationship with a girl under 16 from 1997-98 while he was a volleyball coach at St. Helena High School. He is also charged with sexual assault of a second girl under 18 between 1996 and 1999.
Sandler resigned from St. Helena High in November 2007, shortly after the first accusations surfaced, citing personal and family reasons.
Sandler’s wife, Oksana Sandler, said Wednesday the charges are “ridiculous.”
“He is such a great example to everybody ... and if there are some accusations made, they first of all have to be proved,” she said. “Second of all, I just don’t think they have anything to do with him being a man of God, and just a really, really, really wonderful man.”
In addition to his post as volleyball coach, Sandler coached wrestling at St. Helena High until 2007, and served as a youth minister at his former St. Helena church, according to his wife.
Sandler is being held at Napa County Jail on $250,000 bail.
Campus charges
Sandler is accused of having consensual sexual intercourse with the 16-year-old “at least two separate times” — once on the St. Helena High School campus, and once in his car while parked on Crystal Springs Road after dark. He is accused of engaging in lewd acts with the girl at his home in Calistoga at least one time during this period.
According to the criminal complaint against Sandler, he also participated in an act of oral copulation with a second girl under 18 between 1996 and 1999.
Sandler is charged with one count of lewd acts upon a child under 16, two counts of oral copulation with a minor under 16, and one count of oral copulation of a minor under 18.
Special allegations were also filed for “crimes that involved substantial sexual conduct.”
Napa County Chief Deputy District Attorney John Goold said the enhancement would make Sandler ineligible for probation if convicted.
Complaints were filed by the girls — now adults — on Nov. 6, 2007, and Jan. 28, 2008, respectively.
Goold said there is an exception to the statute of limitations for sexual acts against a minor when those acts “don’t come to light until later.”
Stand by his side
Criminal reports do not indicate whether the victims were volleyball players at St. Helena High, but one document alleges that Sandler “committed similar sexual misconduct against other girls (including other teenage girls and other volleyball players).”
According to criminal reports dated March 31, 2008, and signed by District Attorney Gary Lieberstein, “There is evidence that clearly and convincingly corroborates the victim’s allegations,” including “admissions by the defendant.”
Oksana Sandler said there has never been an indication that Sandler was inappropriate with his athletes or other minors, though the couple was not married at the time of the alleged incidents.
“We met in 2003 at a camp for orphans that he was doing in Russia,” she said. “We saw him and the love that he had for those orphans, and you just have to really know him to know what kind of man he is.”
Crying, she called Sandler “the best husband and the best father” to his new son Jacob.
“People that know him, they will stand by him, and we don’t need to prove and to tell anybody anything else,” said Oksana. “He is the best man, and I’m going to be by his side no matter what.”
St. Helena Unified School District Superintendent Allan Gordon declined comment.
Sandler served as the school’s head volleyball coach from 1996-1999, and coached the wrestling team for 13 years until the end of 2007.
Under Sandler’s watch, the wrestling team won nine league titles in 10 seasons and a CIF North Coast Section Class A title. Four St. Helena wrestlers reached the state meet with Sandler as the head coach, with several others winning league championships.
He also coached men’s and women’s volleyball at Pacific Union College from 2002 to 2006, according to PUC Director of Human Resources Gayln Bowers.
Police are interested in contacting anyone who may have information regarding Sandler’s activities during the time he worked at St. Helena High School. The public is asked to contact District Attorney Investigator Bill Francis at 259-8308 with any additional information.
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jeepracer10 wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:54 AM:
Common Sense wrote on Apr 3, 2008 8:21 AM:
hudds5 wrote on Apr 3, 2008 9:25 AM:
Paddy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 9:59 AM:
AT2008 wrote on Apr 3, 2008 10:16 AM:
YES wrote on Apr 3, 2008 10:38 AM:
Common Sense wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:02 AM:
funnyme wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:08 AM:
Guess we just have to wait and see how it turns out.
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cagirl wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:16 AM:
JimClark wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:31 AM:
Remember when feminism latched on to fathers assaulting their daughters? Some female teachers are supposed to have a hankering for their younger students also. It might make a salacious news story but, at what expense? Teachers, as a whole, are under prejudices as they are guilty by association with their unions. Having some experience with them, I tend to find the administrators and unions to be the enemy of the student and The People.
This is very suspicious. There is too much involved here, has caused some kind of assault on our sensitivities.
Don't allow your personal prejudices to judge this issue. One news story can make a case for one or either side; depending on objectivity. Though my daughter graduated from St. Helena High School, I never met the teacher in question. In fact, all I knew was he was the wrestling coach.
Of course this kind of behavior is abhorrent and it cries out for punishment. I am not ready to pass judgment on neither one news story nor the scattered information written. "
cagirl wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:59 AM:
kingsavage wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:10 PM:
izzy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:34 PM:
If others come forward independently, this guy will be toast.
In most cases of this type, the wife or girlfriend will defend that man to the end....even after a conviction.
Sexual proclivities cross all boundries. "
Dwayne wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:49 PM:
I have a daughter coming of age, and hope I don't make what I clearly see as parental errors in teaching and communicating with their kids. There is definitely some shared responsibility with the parents for being out of touch. "
diehard4ever wrote on Apr 3, 2008 1:25 PM:
Some of these 14 year old girls look like "twenty something" with the clothes, make up and attitude they carry. Don't get me wrong, it is not an excuse for an older guy to prey on minors (even though they might not look like children).
Without getting into "psycho-babble", some of these kids are desperately looking for attention, acceptance and often times for a father figure. And disturbed adults who otherwise are not fully capable to deal with adults their age seem to be willing to "fulfill" these children's needs.
I have a question about the allegations of oral sex: Is oral sex still consider sex? Because back on the late 90's, it was, but it really wasn't? "
Baraki wrote on Apr 3, 2008 1:27 PM:
dominus wrote on Apr 3, 2008 2:04 PM:
donnaitalia wrote on Apr 3, 2008 2:17 PM:
MP wrote on Apr 3, 2008 2:50 PM:
izzy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 4:03 PM:
Neil Goldschmidt, former Gov. of Oregon, had an affair with the 14 y.o. babysitter, that lasted until she left for college at 18. She just came forward last year, now nearly 30. "
Dwayne wrote on Apr 3, 2008 4:17 PM:
We have to trust that the DA is not ruining some man's life as the DA in the Duke case did. They either can make the case or they cannot. The problem with that is that this is already being tried in the media, and the guy's life is a train wreck anyway. Once it's reported in the media, it's signed sealed and delivered, regardless of the outcome of any trial. That's what is wrong with out system. There is no recovery from being trashed in the media, and no innocent until proven guilty either.
For this to be fair, those women have better been vetted completely by the DA, and the DA's office better have all their ducks in a row.
No more Duke-type cases...!!! "
XMAN wrote on Apr 3, 2008 5:09 PM:
miss_nessa wrote on Apr 3, 2008 6:38 PM:
glenroy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 7:36 PM:
vocal-de-local wrote on Apr 3, 2008 10:32 PM:
pbfallon wrote on Apr 4, 2008 10:32 AM:
Give the guy his due. I don't know him or the girls, but we have a justice system to deal with him at trial. This is not the place! "
rage against wrote on Apr 4, 2008 10:48 AM:
petebo wrote on Apr 4, 2008 2:06 PM:
Ephemerol wrote on Apr 5, 2008 11:21 PM:
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incognito wrote on Apr 6, 2008 10:55 AM:
Where were the parents when all this happened? Who was raising this kids? T.V. "
vocal-de-local wrote on Apr 6, 2008 11:26 AM:
It's also interesting, the cultural differences you speak of. Even though our laws differ here, they need to be enforced. I feel strongly that older adults who prey on younger females have something that is not quite right in their brains; either a lack of impulse control or immaturity/inability to maintain a meaningful relationship with women their own age. It doesn't matter to me what nature is telling them to do. Nature tells us to do a lot of things, including injuring or even killing someone who has wronged us. It's a part of our genetic makeup that helped us survive when the world was a more dangerous place to live. Same with sex. In the past, the average lifespan was probably around age 40 or even less. Mating with a teen back then was like mating with a 30 year old today.
Still, there is a primitive part of the brain which has not evolved in some men to recognize the difference. And it involves impulse control. That's why we had to invent laws which force us to live by the rules that apply to the present rather than relying on our primitive biological laws. Most men have evolved impulse control otherwise we wouldn't be civilized. It's the few who haven't which require us to invent laws protecting teens. "
rage against wrote on Apr 7, 2008 9:49 AM:
Herschel is an extremely knowledgable and successful, wrestling coach, and judging by the record it would appear the same goes for him as a Volleyball coach. I never particpated in or was interested in volleyball, so I can't be sure. If the allegations are false, it will be a big loss to high school students who want to learn a sport, like wrestling or volleyball, from an experienced and capable person like Herschel. Also, these allegations, true or false, will forever smear this guy's reputation in this community. Like everyone else Herschel Sandler was liked and disliked by people. I'm sure for the latter group of folks even if these allegations are proved false, this fiasco will be a huge support for their perspectives.
Somebody said it already, "you never really know a person" and only those involved will ever really know what happened in this situation. Unfortunately, that doesn't stop people from assuming they know the truth. Some people need a villian just as much as they need a hero.
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aj1 wrote on Apr 8, 2008 12:38 PM:
WHY wrote on Apr 9, 2008 1:59 PM:
Paddy wrote on Apr 10, 2008 10:37 AM:
Has everyone passed a verdict already? "
UncleStuy wrote on Apr 12, 2008 4:51 PM:
n.goin wrote on Jan 10, 2009 3:48 AM: