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Thursday, April 03, 2008
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A former St. Helena High school coach was arrested Wednesday on four felony charges of child sexual assault involving two teenage girls.

Herschel Sandler, 45, currently of Napa, is accused of having a sexual relationship with a girl under 16 from 1997-98 while he was a volleyball coach at St. Helena High School. He is also charged with sexual assault of a second girl under 18 between 1996 and 1999.
Sandler resigned from St. Helena High in November 2007, shortly after the first accusations surfaced, citing personal and family reasons.

Sandler’s wife, Oksana Sandler, said Wednesday the charges are “ridiculous.”
“He is such a great example to everybody ... and if there are some accusations made, they first of all have to be proved,” she said. “Second of all, I just don’t think they have anything to do with him being a man of God, and just a really, really, really wonderful man.”

In addition to his post as volleyball coach, Sandler coached wrestling at St. Helena High until 2007, and served as a youth minister at his former St. Helena church, according to his wife.
Sandler is being held at Napa County Jail on $250,000 bail.

Campus charges

Sandler is accused of having consensual sexual intercourse with the 16-year-old “at least two separate times” — once on the St. Helena High School campus, and once in his car while parked on Crystal Springs Road after dark. He is accused of engaging in lewd acts with the girl at his home in Calistoga at least one time during this period.

According to the criminal complaint against Sandler, he also participated in an act of oral copulation with a second girl under 18 between 1996 and 1999.

Sandler is charged with one count of lewd acts upon a child under 16, two counts of oral copulation with a minor under 16, and one count of oral copulation of a minor under 18.

Special allegations were also filed for “crimes that involved substantial sexual conduct.”

Napa County Chief Deputy District Attorney John Goold said the enhancement would make Sandler ineligible for probation if convicted.

Complaints were filed by the girls — now adults — on Nov. 6, 2007, and Jan. 28, 2008, respectively.

Goold said there is an exception to the statute of limitations for sexual acts against a minor when those acts “don’t come to light until later.”

Stand by his side

Criminal reports do not indicate whether the victims were volleyball players at St. Helena High, but one document alleges that Sandler “committed similar sexual misconduct against other girls (including other teenage girls and other volleyball players).”

According to criminal reports dated March 31, 2008, and signed by District Attorney Gary Lieberstein, “There is evidence that clearly and convincingly corroborates the victim’s allegations,” including “admissions by the defendant.”

Oksana Sandler said there has never been an indication that Sandler was inappropriate with his athletes or other minors, though the couple was not married at the time of the alleged incidents.

“We met in 2003 at a camp for orphans that he was doing in Russia,” she said. “We saw him and the love that he had for those orphans, and you just have to really know him to know what kind of man he is.”

Crying, she called Sandler “the best husband and the best father” to his new son Jacob.

“People that know him, they will stand by him, and we don’t need to prove and to tell anybody anything else,” said Oksana. “He is the best man, and I’m going to be by his side no matter what.”

St. Helena Unified School District Superintendent Allan Gordon declined comment.

Sandler served as the school’s head volleyball coach from 1996-1999, and coached the wrestling team for 13 years until the end of 2007.

Under Sandler’s watch, the wrestling team won nine league titles in 10 seasons and a CIF North Coast Section Class A title. Four St. Helena wrestlers reached the state meet with Sandler as the head coach, with several others winning league championships.

He also coached men’s and women’s volleyball at Pacific Union College from 2002 to 2006, according to PUC Director of Human Resources Gayln Bowers.

Police are interested in contacting anyone who may have information regarding Sandler’s activities during the time he worked at St. Helena High School. The public is asked to contact District Attorney Investigator Bill Francis at 259-8308 with any additional information.
37 comment(s)

jeepracer10 wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:54 AM:

" Why would young teenage women want to have sex with an old man? It appears that this is becoming all too common these days. How detailed of a background/psych exam is done before these teachers/coaches are being hired and put incharge of our kids? "

Common Sense wrote on Apr 3, 2008 8:21 AM:

" Gee, another male coach busted for taking liberties with girls under his charge. It's almost as if they take these jobs for a reason... "

hudds5 wrote on Apr 3, 2008 9:25 AM:

" Don't pass judgement too quickly. Remember that another teacher was cleared of all of his charges earlier this year. If found guilty, the courts should make an example of him. As far as sexual predators taking jobs as teachers, it's sad but true. They also like to voluteer at churches, community sports programs, hospitals, and etc. Background checks are not enough sometimes, so we must educate our kids on how to protect themselves from being a victim. "

Paddy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 9:59 AM:

" Common Sense, you apparently have none.... 99.9% of teachers and coaches take on these often thankless jobs for very positive reasons. Have you ever had a coach? Maybe you've had a teacher (not sure). Don't compare the position against only those that actually get the press. Without coaches there would be anarchy. "

AT2008 wrote on Apr 3, 2008 10:16 AM:

" There's always more than one side to a story. I have known Herschel for 20 years and have never known him to be inappropriate. If anything, I wittnessed him to be a positive role model and mentor to the youth in the valley as well as serving in other countries. Why do people automatically assume the worst? It will be very sad if these allegations are proven but we also need to take him and his family into consideration. It's entirely possible that Herschel could be the victim here and not the other way around. "

YES wrote on Apr 3, 2008 10:38 AM:

" MY QUESTION IS ........WHY DID THE GIRLS WAIT A DECADE BEFORE SAYING ANYTHING????????/ "

Common Sense wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:02 AM:

" Paddy, there are plenty of good coaches out there. But the percentage of those engaging in 'extracurricular' activities with underage girls and boys is way too high. In many cases, people know stuff is going on but can't or won't speak up about it...understandable, since these people are often established, authority figures in their communities. And, these predators tend to seek out jobs that leave them alone with their prey. The wrestling coach in Sonoma, who was recently convicted of crimes against numerous girls, comes to mind. Parents have to look out for their kids, even if the kids don't want them to. "

funnyme wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:08 AM:

" A 35 year old man having sexual relations with a 14 to 18 year old girl...I am sorry but I don't see the innocence on either side.
Guess we just have to wait and see how it turns out.
"

cagirl wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:16 AM:

" To YES--Unfortunately it takes years before the girls involved in this situation truly realize the inappropriate nature of the relationship. It's not uncommon for high school kids to "idealize" a teacher or coach and somehow think it's cool to obtain the attention/affection from these people. After some time has passed and these girls have the maturity and ability to reflect on the situation they understand how they were taken advantage of. Even though a teacher was recently cleared of these allegations, most of the time the allegations are true. Can any one of us truly say we know 100% about someone else--no way. EVERYONE has parts of their lives that they are not proud of, however most people can draw a line between legal/unlegal. "

JimClark wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:31 AM:

" This is one of those wait and see cases. Ten years? Was it the same year or over a period of time or any other history? Too many questions need to be addressed. Innocence before guilt comes from our laws; though some have been by the ACLU. $250,000.00 bail? MY GAWD!! Heinous criminals get off better than that!! Accusations do not a criminal make. Accusations do not make one a criminal.

Remember when feminism latched on to fathers assaulting their daughters? Some female teachers are supposed to have a hankering for their younger students also. It might make a salacious news story but, at what expense? Teachers, as a whole, are under prejudices as they are guilty by association with their unions. Having some experience with them, I tend to find the administrators and unions to be the enemy of the student and The People.

This is very suspicious. There is too much involved here, has caused some kind of assault on our sensitivities.

Don't allow your personal prejudices to judge this issue. One news story can make a case for one or either side; depending on objectivity. Though my daughter graduated from St. Helena High School, I never met the teacher in question. In fact, all I knew was he was the wrestling coach.

Of course this kind of behavior is abhorrent and it cries out for punishment. I am not ready to pass judgment on neither one news story nor the scattered information written. "

cagirl wrote on Apr 3, 2008 11:59 AM:

" To YES--Unfortunately it takes years before the girls involved in this situation truly realize the inappropriate nature of the relationship. It's not uncommon for high school kids to "idealize" a teacher or coach and somehow think it's cool to obtain the attention/affection from these people. After some time has passed and these girls have the maturity and ability to reflect on the situation they understand how they were taken advantage of. Even though a teacher was recently cleared of these allegations, most of the time the allegations are true. Can any one of us truly say we know 100% about someone else--no way. EVERYONE has parts of their lives that they are not proud of, however most people can draw a line between legal/unlegal. "

kingsavage wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:10 PM:

" remember the story about the DUKE la cross team? they were convicted by the media only to be exonerated later on. "

izzy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:34 PM:

" Most likely the tip of the iceberg...or, both girls are lying.
If others come forward independently, this guy will be toast.
In most cases of this type, the wife or girlfriend will defend that man to the end....even after a conviction.
Sexual proclivities cross all boundries. "

Dwayne wrote on Apr 3, 2008 12:49 PM:

" Thank you, Izzy, and you are right....

I have a daughter coming of age, and hope I don't make what I clearly see as parental errors in teaching and communicating with their kids. There is definitely some shared responsibility with the parents for being out of touch. "

diehard4ever wrote on Apr 3, 2008 1:25 PM:

" This is clearly the result of a sexualized society we are living in.
Some of these 14 year old girls look like "twenty something" with the clothes, make up and attitude they carry. Don't get me wrong, it is not an excuse for an older guy to prey on minors (even though they might not look like children).
Without getting into "psycho-babble", some of these kids are desperately looking for attention, acceptance and often times for a father figure. And disturbed adults who otherwise are not fully capable to deal with adults their age seem to be willing to "fulfill" these children's needs.

I have a question about the allegations of oral sex: Is oral sex still consider sex? Because back on the late 90's, it was, but it really wasn't? "

Baraki wrote on Apr 3, 2008 1:27 PM:

" Pretty horrible stuff if it happened. Hoping this isn't a witch hunt. "

dominus wrote on Apr 3, 2008 2:04 PM:

" Why would these 2 grown woman come forward years later to implicate this supposed "man of god" for something never happened years ago? There is no rational reason why. "

donnaitalia wrote on Apr 3, 2008 2:17 PM:

" How does it "take years before the girls involved in this situation truly realize the inappropriate nature of the relationship"? If these allegations are true, all parties had to have known that they were doing something "inappropriate", certainly the adult. And if true, too bad they didn't come forward sooner to protect someone else, possibly a much younger/immature child than a 16- or 17-year old. It is so important the parents teach their children to tell immediately if anyone attempts to touch them in a too familiar or sexual manner. "

MP wrote on Apr 3, 2008 2:50 PM:

" I was molested by a family member when I was a teen ager and I have never spoken about it -- I was ashamed that although I never encouraged him it was somehow my fault after all, he was older and more knowledgeable. It was considerably more than a decade ago. He's dead now but I still remember.... "

izzy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 4:03 PM:

" There a a few out there that are begging for it....for the attention ..and sex if that's the way they will get it. Some carry on for years, into adulthood. There was one I remember a few years ago that went on from 12 to 29. She finally came forward when it was apparent that the man wasn't going to leave his wife after all. She became heart broken, then angry and then went to police after encouragement from a therapist.
Neil Goldschmidt, former Gov. of Oregon, had an affair with the 14 y.o. babysitter, that lasted until she left for college at 18. She just came forward last year, now nearly 30. "

Dwayne wrote on Apr 3, 2008 4:17 PM:

" Remember that the DA's office is a filter between accusations and charges.

We have to trust that the DA is not ruining some man's life as the DA in the Duke case did. They either can make the case or they cannot. The problem with that is that this is already being tried in the media, and the guy's life is a train wreck anyway. Once it's reported in the media, it's signed sealed and delivered, regardless of the outcome of any trial. That's what is wrong with out system. There is no recovery from being trashed in the media, and no innocent until proven guilty either.

For this to be fair, those women have better been vetted completely by the DA, and the DA's office better have all their ducks in a row.

No more Duke-type cases...!!! "

XMAN wrote on Apr 3, 2008 5:09 PM:

" School teachers, coaches and religious leaders are supposed to take a protective attitude towards their charges. Anything else is unacceptable. To violate an immature female is despicable if that is what has been done. Since there has been no trial the accused is presumed to be innocent. The girls, having been traumatized by the experience, may not have become cognizant as to how much emotional damage had been carried forward until later on in their lives. Once the impact of what has been taken from them hits them fully in their conscious awareness, they are going to be pretty mad. Can you blame them? There is much to be done before any conclusions can be reached. We'll all have to wait and see. "

miss_nessa wrote on Apr 3, 2008 6:38 PM:

" wow another story about how little girls are messing around with thier teachers....how many examples have to be made before teachers and student get the picture? ewwww this is so gross...yes i knoe this is a messed up world but its getting really ridiculous...o and FYI oral sex is the same as sex!!!! duh!!!! oral SEX..SEX!!! GET IT...What i don't understand is why didn't these girls say no? because he is a teacher and has thier grade or is some what an authority figure...or were thry scared??? why didnt this teacher control himself...teens these days dress and act like they are ready for the real world but in reality they ar just little girls....i going to wait for the outcome... "

glenroy wrote on Apr 3, 2008 7:36 PM:

" Paddy....very well said. "

vocal-de-local wrote on Apr 3, 2008 10:32 PM:

" I don't care if a nude teenage girl dances circles around an adult male. Men can remove themselves from the situation by just walking away. If they lack such self discipline, they deserve what the law throws at them. "

pbfallon wrote on Apr 4, 2008 10:32 AM:

" OK Gang...what if the stories are contrived? I am always amazed at how quick we are to condemn and convict with no facts.

Give the guy his due. I don't know him or the girls, but we have a justice system to deal with him at trial. This is not the place! "

rage against wrote on Apr 4, 2008 10:48 AM:

" I was a wrestler for St. Helena high school during (or very near 95, 96) the times these events supposedly occurred. Apart from my personal opinions of Herschel, in this country people are innocent until proven guilty. I believe people are mostly good and virtuous, but they are also lazy. Now, apart from what happens with this whole debacle, citizens like all of us have something to learn from the mere mention of a situation like this. We need to uphold our responsibilities to our children, brothers and sisters, by being figures of protection and trust in our community. It will be sad if these allegations are true, and it should not be seen as a failure of just one man, but the enitre St. Helena community. A community I am apart of. "

petebo wrote on Apr 4, 2008 2:06 PM:

" Geez, now it seems as though everyone wears a black robe and thinks they know it all. What a pathetic society. Hang em high...uniquely American when it comes to our system of justice. What a corrupt system breeds is more corruption. Why do people make so many assumptions? No brain, no pain... "

Ephemerol wrote on Apr 5, 2008 11:21 PM:

" In America at this time it's hip, cool and accepted to be seductive and alluring as a very young girl. Remember this is all about billions of dollars that are made in clothing, makeup and even cosmetic surgery in high school no less. What is absent, missing and removed from conversation in all of this is that we have no sex education early on in this country as they do in many European countries. This is also absentee parenting and an extended and meaningless adolescence with no adult role modes and is a prescription for personal disasters of all stripes. Children raising children has never been a substitute for wisdom and maturity. Add religions to all of this ( I am a recovering Catholic ) and one has the one last arena of enforced ignorance and forbidden fruit to deal with and it's confusion is or can be intense and deadly. We need to raise children - mature and whole - and not sexed up kids ( or hyper aggressive ) who do not know what to do with this powerful God given human energy. It's also not what we all think it is. Just for reference: "In Germany, sexual intercourse is legal from the age of 14 in most cases. An exception is when the older partner is aged over 18 and is "exploiting a coercive situation" or offering compensation, in which case the younger partner must be over 16. In addition, it is illegal for someone aged over 21 to have sex with someone under 16 if they "exploit the victim's lack of capacity for sexual self-determination".
"

incognito wrote on Apr 6, 2008 10:55 AM:

" Innocent untill proven guilty!!
Where were the parents when all this happened? Who was raising this kids? T.V. "

vocal-de-local wrote on Apr 6, 2008 11:26 AM:

" I agree with you Ephemerol. We live in a world where kids are raising kids and very few adults are teaching boundaries. But older males seducing teenagers is certainly not new. And as far as we know, neither one of these females became pregnant. I will assume they used protection. Nevertheless, we do need to discuss with younger people prevention of disease and pregnancy even though most of them already know it.

It's also interesting, the cultural differences you speak of. Even though our laws differ here, they need to be enforced. I feel strongly that older adults who prey on younger females have something that is not quite right in their brains; either a lack of impulse control or immaturity/inability to maintain a meaningful relationship with women their own age. It doesn't matter to me what nature is telling them to do. Nature tells us to do a lot of things, including injuring or even killing someone who has wronged us. It's a part of our genetic makeup that helped us survive when the world was a more dangerous place to live. Same with sex. In the past, the average lifespan was probably around age 40 or even less. Mating with a teen back then was like mating with a 30 year old today.

Still, there is a primitive part of the brain which has not evolved in some men to recognize the difference. And it involves impulse control. That's why we had to invent laws which force us to live by the rules that apply to the present rather than relying on our primitive biological laws. Most men have evolved impulse control otherwise we wouldn't be civilized. It's the few who haven't which require us to invent laws protecting teens. "

rage against wrote on Apr 7, 2008 9:49 AM:

" Pbfallon, (if the allegations are untrue)

Herschel is an extremely knowledgable and successful, wrestling coach, and judging by the record it would appear the same goes for him as a Volleyball coach. I never particpated in or was interested in volleyball, so I can't be sure. If the allegations are false, it will be a big loss to high school students who want to learn a sport, like wrestling or volleyball, from an experienced and capable person like Herschel. Also, these allegations, true or false, will forever smear this guy's reputation in this community. Like everyone else Herschel Sandler was liked and disliked by people. I'm sure for the latter group of folks even if these allegations are proved false, this fiasco will be a huge support for their perspectives.
Somebody said it already, "you never really know a person" and only those involved will ever really know what happened in this situation. Unfortunately, that doesn't stop people from assuming they know the truth. Some people need a villian just as much as they need a hero.
"

aj1 wrote on Apr 8, 2008 12:38 PM:

" All of this is just too hard to believe. I was coached by him for 2 years for club volleyball and never felt any kind of negative vibe from him. All of my team mates and I were and are still very close and agree that he never crossed any lines with us and definitely agree that this accusation seems way out of character for him. He was the best coach I ever had and has earned much respect from me. All I can say is that I hope the truth comes out . "

WHY wrote on Apr 9, 2008 1:59 PM:

" Innocent before proven guilty. So what happens to the girls that made these claims, if in deed they are not true this guy will never be able to walk around any of the local towns without someone looking at him in a strange way. How uncomfortable will that be? Can he sue these girls and have the regiser paste their pictures all over the paper so that they would face the same issues he will face going forward since they will have ruined his reputation? Put the shoe on the other foot as I did, we have made him out as guilty, why not make them out as guilty until we find the truth. There are two sides to everything. "

Paddy wrote on Apr 10, 2008 10:37 AM:

" I'd like to know who will stand with this guy? How many hundreds of kids has he coached who have had positive experiences? He can't make bail? He has to use a Public Defender?
Has everyone passed a verdict already? "

UncleStuy wrote on Apr 12, 2008 4:51 PM:

" I condem men who are convicted of these acts. I agree, let's wait to see what happens in court. This will be Napa's 2nd teacher to be brought up on charges. The first teacher was aquitted. Now, if this man is aquitted. What the heck is going on with our Prosecutor's Office ? No, they can't ignore it. But, yet, they need evidence that will convict. There is alot more questions to ask and hope his lawyer is studying up. No one deserves to go thru this, if your not guilty. But, on the other hand, if your quilty. I hope he gets San Quentin. "

n.goin wrote on Jan 10, 2009 3:48 AM:

" Herschel was my coach for the two years that I wrestled, Herschel was a great coach, always put his students needs above his own, when he led our team, he always made sure to instill good family morals, spoke to us of his faith and his work with orphans, he also taught us good life lessons about not giving in when situations got tough, to keep pushing through and make it to the end of the fight. I being one of two females on the wrestling team never felt like lines were crossed, or uncomfortable in any situations. Male and Females were treated equally and given the same amount of one-on-one time, thoughout practice. A few of us from the team are in the military right now. I feel that the lessons that I learned while on the wrestling team made me a stronger, more driven individual, determined to achieve greatness and with faith, could accomplish anything that we wanted. "

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